Vibration feeling when paranormal is close

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People have described it as the feeling you get when a tuning fork is used. Others say it is like when a motor is running nearby. Some liken it to sitting in a massage chair. However you may describe it, there is a feeling people get when the paranormal is close by. This is true for aliens, ghosts and other unusual manifestations.

If you have visited a haunted location, you may have noticed that right before activity will manifest, a few things may happen. Some people will get goosebumps. Others get a cold feeling. Headaches or dizziness can strike suddenly. Along with this, people report a vibration sensation. It is strong, and you cannot miss it.

Obviously, the vibration sensation has something to do with paranormal activity. There are theories that say entities use energy of people, batteries, and other power sources to manifest. Perhaps this is why people will feel cold, vibration, headaches, dizziness, goosebumps, and other unmistakable sensations. Could it be that bodies react when energy is drawn from them?

It also might be that a door is opening to another dimension which creates the vibration. Paranormal researchers look for spikes in EMF activity during activity. Cells in our bodies can actually detect electrical activity. The body reactions may just be our cell responses to the spike in electrical activity caused by the opening of a portal or entity giving off high EMF.

An entity could be directly interacting with your mind, and that action can create a certain sensation in your body. Maybe entities use our minds to manifest, and in doing so, the side effects include neurological sensations, vibration being one of them.

This also points to the potential of sound waves being part of the equation. Various tones can make us feel like we are vibrating. The paranormal may operate on a sound decibel which directly impacts our neurological systems. There has been research into infrasound being connected to paranormal activity, and infrasound can impact us neurologically.

Perhaps all of these scenarios are true in some way. It does seem that certain entities can control how they use this phenomenon. When they want to inflict a certain feeling, they may be able to use the electrical activity they produce (or surrounds them) to cause headaches, dizziness, vibration, and other sensations. One thing is for sure, and that is that there is a correlation between vibration and the paranormal.

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Why some people are magnets for paranormal

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Why is it that some people will go into a notoriously haunted location and experience nothing? What is it that makes certain individuals magnets for everything supernatural? You may be someone who always seems to connect with the other side, and you might wonder why.

I’ve heard this so many times and witnessed it personally. Multiple people will go to a haunted place, and some will have in your face experiences. At the same time, another group member will witness nothing. This happens time and time again. It can be very frustrating for a paranormal investigator who is interested in finding and documenting activity. Sometimes the supernatural just won’t cooperate.

When I looked at those who frequently experience ghosts, apparitions etc., I found some common factors. These are:

Neurological system

Mindset

Vulnerability

Entity choice

  1. Neurological system.

In a lot of these cases, those who are prone to witness paranormal activity have some kind of neurological issue. Some are aware that they have the issue, while others do not. Whether the issues are migraines, neuropathy, seizures, or other problems, the paranormal magnets tend to have something unusual going on with their neurological systems.

2. Mindset

Believers are more likely to observe something than skeptics. Those who think something is going on have more success capturing EVP’s, apparitions, and other documented evidence. This makes you wonder if those who are hesitant actually close their minds off from experiences. A lack of belief may translate into a locked mind which inhibits activity.

Also, those with psychic abilities are more able to tune in when at a location which is reportedly haunted. The mind is open and contact is more likely. Psychics can even do this from a distance.

3. Vulnerability

It is said that people who are drugged, drunk, or suffering from an illness can be magnets for paranormal. This goes back to mindset. If you are closed off, you cannot witness something. When people drink or take medications, their inhibitions are lowered. Also, if you are sick, you are not operating at 100%. This makes you vulnerable. It seems to lower the shield that keeps the paranormal away. These physical states seem to empower entities to make contact.

4. Entity choice

It shouldn’t surprise anyone that entities have choices. They may be drawn to some people and find others repulsive. Therefore, certain people may radiate an energy that draws entities to them. This is true for psychics. They are open, and the paranormal beings see that.  An entity may view a specific person negatively and simply refuse to communicate or interact. People will get EVP’s where entities flat out say they don’t like a specific person who is there.

The paranormal is complex. The environment plays a factor in manifestations, and so do the people who are present. All of us are unique, and our bodies and minds impact whether or not we can connect with the supernatural. We do not know exactly how this comes about. Some places can have the very same characteristics as a haunted location, yet they are not haunted. What makes one location a hotbed for activity? The more we investigate, the more we make baby steps in learning what makes the paranormal tick. We as humans play a role in all of this. As of now, we have pieces of the puzzle, but we are far from putting it all together. However, it does seem like the more time someone spends in haunted locations, the more that person will experience something spooky!

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Alien abductees change stories

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When you look at what happens when people are taken by aliens, you find patterns. People who have been snatched by ET’s will often at first say the experience was terrifying. They can’t eat. They can’t sleep. Their lives are turned upside down. Yet much later, they will change their story and say the extraterrestrials meant no harm. They even can become fiercely defensive about the aliens. The questions is: how does a person go from suffering from PTSD to being fine with alien abduction?

There are many examples of this abductee mindset change, but let me give you a simple example. There are women who have been abducted and then became pregnant. They have fuzzy memories of entities doing something in their vaginal areas. A pregnancy occurs. Then, the fetus suddenly disappears after another abduction. At first the abductee is mortified. They feel violated and traumatized. But after time and the prodding of a regression therapist, they change their opinion. They go from saying they were taken, impregnated, and had a child stolen, to ‘no problem.’ It is like a shrug of the shoulders. When pressed about the subject, abductees will say that the aliens have their child, so it’s no big deal. There must be some good reason for what the entities did.

Whoa! That is a big change.

How did they go from being terrified to not caring at all? The key I’ve found is that a regression therapist or someone with different views intervenes. ET enthusiasts will point out that the abductee wasn’t hurt THAT much. After all, the extraterrestrials could have killed the abductees, but they didn’t. So, aren’t they good guys after all?

There’s so much wrong with this thinking that I don’t know where to begin. The best example I can give is this. What if you were abducted by a human predator, impregnated, and then taken again and the fetus forcibly removed from you? Would you say ‘well, he could’ve killed me, so he’s not all that bad!” Come on. We all know the answer to that. Yet in cases of alien abduction, abductees will excuse heinous behavior of otherworldly entities. The truth is that they do so because they cannot cope with the reality of the situation.  After all, when you think about the horrors of these cases, the fear can be overwhelming.  Who wouldn’t want to change the story? Who wouldn’t want things to be different?

As to the regression therapists, I see a problem with the power of suggestion during the sessions. Over the course of the regression, the therapist will often ask if the abductee gave secret permission at some previous time to be abducted. Now, of course, this is a loaded question and should never be used. Yet it is, and it is a clear suggestion which totally changes the course of the therapy. It puts a seed in the mind of the abductee.

The reason this is so concerning is that the abductee has a strong motivation to grab on to that excuse and hold on to it. It gives the abductee an ‘out.’ They can believe they weren’t taken and assaulted. They can think they agreed to it. It allows them to turn from a victim to a non-victim. It gives abductees a sense of control when there is none. But is it really true?

Let’s face it, if ET’s are taking you, you have no say in when, where, and how it happens. They do what they want, when they want, and how they want. There is no control here, only the illusion of control. Abductees believing they gave permission changes all of this. I completely understand why an abductee would seize onto this line of thinking. It is a psychological protective mechanism. It can allow someone to live a normal life when living day to day may have been difficult to almost impossible.

Abduction is abduction. Experiments are experiments. Unless you have given conscious permission, it is not all right. Still, some abductees have become strangely protective of the ET’s. They don’t seem to recognize that they are actively engaged in Stockholm Syndrome which is a coping mechanism for people who have been abducted. As time goes by, the abductee can feel positive emotions toward a captor. It allows the brain not to be in a constant state of anxiety. It lets the victim to feel a sense of control. This changes a horrible situation into something tolerable or even pleasant.

So, frequently you will see abductees change their stories from horror to love. There is a lot that goes into this change, and I am not sure the victims fully understand it. This is not their fault. They were thrust into a bad situation against their will, and they are making the best of it. If this thinking allows them to live a good life, then it is necessary. I am glad they have this relief.

Yet my point is, you cannot paint toxic waste and say it is beautiful. There are plenty of people who were taken and are distraught over their abductions. Their lives are in ruins. Their marriages suffer. Jobs are lost. Health is destroyed. There is no putting a positive spin on it for them.  Is the only difference in abductees the mentality and belief afterward?

There is another factor that could be at work here, and it is disturbing. Since ET’s can impact our neurological systems and memories, who is to say that they are not simply wiping the minds of certain abductees and putting positive emotions in place? It is something that could explain how an abductee could go from being horrified at what happened to shrugging their shoulders. It is such an extreme change that it warrants further investigation. Please see the work or Dr. David Jacobs and Derrel Sims.

I am not saying that some people do not have positive experiences with ET’s. I know people who psychically reach out and have relationships with extraterrestrials. They share information and friendship. Those cases are totally different. They are not what I am referring to in this article. I am talking about nonconsensual abductions. We have so many questions, and really, the more I learn, the more I feel that I don’t know.

I do wonder if this lack of disclosure is done on purpose to cause confusion. I keep going back to this in my research. Secrecy breeds confusion. Confusion leads to anxiety. Anxiety keeps people upset. It is hard to make good decisions and progress when constantly being spun around. As we stand now, we know very little about ET’s. It seems as if they want it that way, and that has to make you question what is really going on.

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Paranormal injuries come back

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The paranormal is fascinating. We often find hope in the thought that there is an afterlife. Seeing a ghost can be comforting, and some hauntings are benevolent. They can even be helpful when a sweet spirit is involved. However, we all know that not every spectral encounter is nice. There are things out there that seem to want to hurt us.

Some people say that these violent entities are merely thought forms manifested outward; that we somehow create the entity with our unconscious minds. While I do believe this is true in some cases, I do not believe it is true in all. In fact, there are downright intelligent hauntings where unknown information is passed to residents at a haunted location in connection with bad activity. This previously unknown information will be verified to be true, and no one involved in the paranormal location will have known this information prior. It suggests an intelligent haunting.

It isn’t simply a spook repeating the same action day by day. These hauntings are different. And when people come across such places, injuries can occur. No matter what anyone says, you can get hurt in a haunted location.

While I know that too many TV shows and movies play up the violent angle of the paranormal, it does not mean that a person cannot be wounded in a haunted location. A person can be hurt when something manifests. There are several ways this can happen:

  1. The person panics, runs, trips, and falls.
  2. The energy the entity uses to manifest drains energy from a living person. This makes the person tired and more susceptible to injury.
  3. People may be so scared of a paranormal manifestation that they unknowingly use their own minds to manifest an injury on their bodies. It is mind over matter.
  4. An entity may lash out and actually cause injury.

When the damage appears to be caused by an entity, I have found that the wound can resurface at another time. What I mean is, I have known people who have gone into a malevolent haunted location and suffered harm. The injuries include strangulation marks, cuts, scratches, burns, and other problems. These injuries coincide with an intelligent entity which conveys information. In these cases, the victims have no ties to the entity. For example, a family will move into a home and bad things happen. They don’t know who or what is haunting the location. An investigator goes in but has no prior connection to the location.

In these types of hauntings, when people get hurt, there are instances where the injury heals but then comes back later. I’ve seen cases where the burning, bruising, scratching resurfaces a year later. Sometimes this occurs years later. This coincides with other paranormal activity rearing its ugly head again.

Is the entity back?

Does the person’s cell memory recreate the injury when paranormal activity returns?

It is hard to determine the exact cause. However, it is interesting that the reappearance of the injury goes hand in hand with paranormal activity acting up. This suggests that there could be a connection to an actual entity. I know many researchers will brush this off and state that it is just a person creating a poltergeist unconsciously. Yet we do not know all factors when it comes to the unconscious mind acting out. We don’t know everything about other dimensional entities. They do exist, and we would be unwise to dismiss that.

It does seem like entities do return to people they have hurt. As many investigators will tell you, if you open a portal or line of communication with something from elsewhere, you do not know what you are speaking to and what it can do. You also may not know how to shut down the open channel.

There is a connection between the appearance of something paranormal and human injury. It does happen. It is fascinating that an old injury would come back after a long period of time. What do you think? Why would this happen?

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Why do ET’s wear skin-tight outfits?

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By Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

People report seeing all kinds of different species of aliens. Whether they call themselves abductees or contactees, humans across the globe have had fantastical experiences with ET. Whether they are taken aboard a craft or simply travel across a galaxy with their minds, humans have actually met creatures from other worlds. There are patterns to how these events take place and who is involved in them.

The most commonly reported extraterrestrial seems to be the Grey alien. Those who have been through abductions state that their Grey captors wore skin-tight, spandex-like outfits. These outfits are also seen on humanoid ET’s as well.

Most often, the outfits climb high on their throats. The color most frequently seen is dark blue. There appears to be some kind of luminescence to the outfits. Those who have touched them say that they feel like human skin and are soft. People who have reported seeing the humanoid ET’s in these outfits say the clothes are white in color instead of dark blue. There seems to be a monochrome color scheme with most of the extraterrestrials for some reason.

The outfits almost always have some kind of insignia where a lapel would be. It reminds you of Stark Trek. However, there are not many reports of the ET’s using the insignias for communications or other purposes. It just seems to show a rank or something like that.

The outfits extend all the way to the feet. There are no shorts in space, apparently.

Those who have gotten near these aliens say that the material of the outfits smells bad. It may very well be that the odor comes from the creatures. There have been reports of a foul smell when extraterrestrials are around. Some describe this as rotten egg or swampy odor.

One wonders why creatures from another planet or dimension would wear an outfit at all. Did they simply evolve that way? Do they wear these outfits because we expect to see them wearing such clothing? Perhaps they think we expect Star Trek, so they give it to us.

There are researchers who suggest that governments are behind some of these abductions. Maybe humans create animatronics that wear Star Trek like outfits in order to carry out mysterious experiments. The truth is that we do not know.

What we do know is that people of all socioeconomic status from around the world report these experiences. Too many have described the ET’s and the form-fitting outfits to ignore the phenomenon.

When you read all of this, what do you think? Why do these entities wear these outfits? Is it to give us what we expect? Did they naturally invent their own clothing? Do we as humans mimic them instead of the other way around? Is it simply governments playing mind games? Perhaps there is a bit of truth in all of these possibilities.

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ET’s wear masks

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What does an extraterrestrial look like? Are they the Greys we have heard so much about? Maybe they are the Reptilians who are the bad boys of the galaxy. Perhaps they are mere energy balls which float in the air in front of our very eyes, much like Glinda the good witch in the Wizard of Oz. The list of various ET sightings goes on and on. They could be the tall whites. But what do these things truly look like?

It is harder to answer than you might think. These creatures are very secretive for reasons they do not share. They go so far as to sometimes give false information to alien contactees. And to make matters worse, it seems that they can look any way they like to us. It may be that they can manifest in any form because they can control what we see or perceive.

Because of this, these things essentially wear masks. Since they can manipulate our neurological systems, they can make us see what they want us to see. So, what you think you see, you may not be seeing. These reports of Grey creatures may be just that: reports. The ET’s may not look like that at all. Same for the ‘other’ aliens. They might not be ‘other’ at all. It could be the same group messing with us.

It gets stranger. There are reports of alien abductees seeing an actual mask on the entities. Whether for protection from our atmosphere or us, enough people have brought this up to take it seriously. They even go as far as to wear fake eyes. Some describe it as being like sunglasses without the rims. Maybe it is for eye protection. For instance, the big black eyes the Grey aliens are famous for may not be their eyes at all. The point is, they wear fake faces. These things do not want us knowing who they really are and what they are up to.

I and other psychics have tried to remote view them. I have been flat out told that they do wear masks. This comes from many different remote viewers and psychics. Whether this is literal or figuratively, I do not know. It could be both. This, of course, is infuriating if you are trying to get to the truth.

Try to talk to an ET. Give it a shot. You will see that they are rarely straight forward. Sometimes they will communicate with us, but it is very hard to get information out of them. It is like pulling teeth. However, I was given a prediction by them about a very important event in my life which did come true. This is not the norm though. They are remarkably secretive as to their goals. For their own reasons, they do not want us to know the truth. No matter how you paint it, that is a problem for us.

I think as we learn more about this phenomenon, we will find out that it is totally different than we expect. So many lies have been told by the entities themselves and by humans with agendas. Ask yourself: who wears masks to hide who they are? For a long time, information has been kept from us.  This has hurt us as a species. It is like we are being kept in a dark age on purpose. We are being lied to from all sides. The sad part is that humanity suffers in the meantime. We are beyond due the truth, but who can we believe? I would trust your average third grader more than most people who are charged with doling out information about ET’s and UFO’s. It is past time for the ET’s to take their masks off.

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Do we really have free will?

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Free will may be an illusion. Oh, we think we are in charge of everything in our lives. We make choices. Some we regret, and others we love. As we go through life, we make tons of decisions every day. All of us share the belief that we make our own paths. What if that isn’t true? What if you learned that the future is predestined, no matter what you do?

It may seem ridiculous, but please hear me out. Psychics have the ability to see the future. I’ve done it. I know others who have done it. You may have seen the future when you have a flash in your mind or a prophetic dream. Have you ever dreamt of something only to later have it come true? This isn’t unusual. Many people get glimpses of the future. A lot of times it happens when you least expect it. Some people even predict the timing of their own deaths or simply know they will die young. And that is exactly what happens.

I know of psychic circles where people get together and attempt to make predictions about the future. Some of us psychics will do this just when we are hanging out as friends. The results can be amazing. There are cases where the predictions are eerily accurate.

To give a basic example, I did a reading for a friend and told her she was going to win some money within two weeks. I said it was not huge lottery jackpot money, but it would be a few thousand dollars which would help her. What she hadn’t told me was that she was planning a trip to a casino that weekend which was in two days. When she returned, she contacted me because she had won $3000.00. I have psychic friends who have predicted when a body would be found in a homicide case. These predictions came true as well. People have predicted plane crashes and other tragedies. I’ve predicted specific terror attacks and the when/where/who would be involved.

We see these things before they happen, or is it truly BEFORE? If we can see the future, does that mean it is written in stone? When we preview what is to come, are we influencing it? How can we see it if it has not already been written?

You can argue that if we see what is going to happen, then it is predestined. If it is not predetermined, how can we see it? When psychics or anybody sees the future and it unfolds as predicted, it appears as if choices don’t matter. This leads to a lot of questions. How in control are we in our lives? If life is predetermined, who predetermines it? Do we have a simple illusion of free will?

If time occurs all at once, does that mean time is folded on itself (past, present, future) and maybe a psychic can see different times which occur simultaneously? Still in order to view another time, it has to have happened. You would have nothing to examine otherwise. You cannot see what isn’t there.

Are we viewing the future in another dimension where it has already occurred? Again, to read it, it has to be written. One could say it was only a potential future that psychics see, but when that future happens, it is no longer a potential. It took place. So when you psychically view it, you have viewed something already written. You can argue that it was only a potential future which was brought about by personal choices. Yet, in order to see it, you have to have something to see. You saw something that was already there. Somehow, it was already there to view. This topic can spin you around in circles.

Dr. Barry Taff did a lot of research on this and said we may not like the answers once we discover what is really happening. When we unravel all these mysteries of the paranormal, we may not be fond of the truth. We may be less in control than we think. In fact, we may have no control at all. It could all be an illusion of free will.

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Do we create ghosts with our minds?

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Are ghosts simply thought forms? Do we make them up with our own energy? There are many scientists who theorize that ghosts are no more than a product of our own thoughts and energy. The hypothesis is that we create them ourselves. The idea is that if you make up a back story about a fake ghost and put energy into the belief, then an entity will form from people’s energy and unconscious thoughts that matches the back story.

For example, there have been experiments where groups of people set out to create a ghost. These research groups planned their ghost. They made up a list of characteristics of a fake person who was said to have died. They then try to make contact with the spirit they created. They held séances and asked questions in an attempt to get responses such as knockings or moving objects.

What these groups found was that they could get responses from their made up ghost. They would ask questions about things that they had written about the ‘ghost.’ In response, they got such things as knocking sounds. However, what they found was that the ghost could only respond to things which were put into the dossier when he was being created. He couldn’t answer questions about things that were not put into the fake bio.

But things get stranger from there. An unexpected outcome puzzled researchers. When they created these ghosts, there was more to them. That is, the ghosts they made up became independent and began to act on their own. The ghost would be there whether the researchers were at the location or not. In some cases problems arose and poltergeist activity picked up. Unwanted happenings would begin, and an entity which they believed that they could control all of a sudden became something that they couldn’t control.

Because of this, some researchers question whether it was ever a thought form to begin with. They suggest that it was another spirit pretending to be the ‘made up’ ghost all along. Are these playful or malicious entities that are using gullible researchers to manifest? Are there entities out there waiting for the chance to tap into group thought and energy so that they can act out?

We are not sure. However there are some troubling flaws in the ghost creation theory. Though it could account for some hauntings, it certainly does not explain all of them. In some cases, those who experience a haunting at a property have no knowledge of ghosts attached to the land. In fact people move in ‘blind’ to the history of the land. Then they experience apparitions and other ghostly manifestations when they have had no knowledge of those who once lived in the house. They can’t create it because they don’t know the history of the land. They only learn about the ghost once they have experienced dreams or apparitions which identify the ghost. When they investigate, they find out that the ghost’s identity matches what they have been seeing and dreaming about.

Basically the ghosts came first in these cases. Knowledge of the ghost came second. Though some may argue that someone could have ‘created’ the ghosts at some prior time, what about properties that have no history of hauntings? What about land that has no legends and no prior activity at all? What about these hauntings that spring up where owners have no prior knowledge and there is no known history of who has lived on the land? In these cases, the people didn’t create a ghost. No one before them made it up. It just happens.

Furthermore, there are paranormal researchers who question whether the scientists actually make up the ghosts at all in their experiments. They point out that it is possible that spirits or other entities imprint the information on the scientists’ unconscious. That the bio ‘created’ by scientists wasn’t fake at all; it was what spirits were communicating before the experiment.

Perhaps ghost creation isn’t creation at all but merely a method for spirits to manifest. We do know entities need energy, and what better way to get it than to feed off a group excited to do research? Maybe it is possible to have both. There may be both spirits of the dead and thought forms too. At this time we honestly can’t rule out either. However there is evidence which can point to both being true at the same time.

There is so much to learn in this fascinating field. And every day holds promise for us to open more doors and learn about the unexplained.

Reprint copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

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How to be psychic with animals

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If you are reading this, then chances are that you love animals. The creatures who surround us as pets and in nature are sentient beings. They think, and they feel. You will see them show compassion to their offspring or siblings. And your pets absolutely adore you. They feel love.

You may notice that your pets sense when something is wrong with you. Whether it is a physical ailment or emotional trauma, they will be by your side with concern. They know something is wrong. They are connected to you.

Did you know that you can psychically talk to animals? You do not need words with your furry friends. You can simply use your mind to speak to them. One does not even need to be in the same room with them. You can be across town and reach them with your thoughts. Animals have heightened senses, so they are always scanning the environment.

If you want to talk with your animals using psychic ability, use these steps.

To begin, you must become calm. Find a place where you will not be bothered.  Then, you need to relax. The best way to do that is to get comfortable and close your eyes. Then you clear your mind. Take slow deep breaths one by one until you calm yourself. It may take you longer than you think to do this since our world is so hectic. You will know when you reach a perfect state because you will feel wonderful and relaxed. Once that is done, proceed to step two.

Second, use your mind to picture what you want to communicate to your animal. Imagine the scene that you want. Do you want your dog to stop doing something? Do you want your cat to listen? You want his attention before you can tell him what to do. Begin by calling his name in your head while picturing yourself with the animal. This could take a while for your animal to learn what you are doing. If you are in the same room with your pet, you can slowly open your eyes to see if you have his attention. Once you have your pet’s attention, go to step three.

Third, concentrate on a happy scenario with your animal. In the image, stroke your animal and tell him how much you love him. Keep this movie scenario in your head while focusing on you with your pet. Repeat this image over and over as you retain the connection with your animal’s mind. During this time, you need to keep calm. The more relaxed you are, the more you will be able to connect with your animal.

Fourth, in your mind, think of what you want your pet to do. Use your mind to create an image of what you want. Imagine it like you would in a daydream. Focus on your animal and talk directly to it in your thoughts. Replay the image repeatedly. Again, you must keep the connection to your pet as you do this. Keep focusing on putting the image in your animal’s head.

If you find yourself getting frustrated, repeat steps one through three and set the stage again. Don’t give up. These things take time.

Eventually you will be amazed by the results. It will take a while, but with practice you can do this. I have quieted wild birds and other animals doing this technique. It works. Animals will listen to you if you give them the chance. They WANT to talk to us. Too often people get frustrated because they want instant results. Psychic work takes practice, and if you are willing to put in the time, you will see progress. This will also help you with your psychic ability overall. You will find it is easier to use your psychic skills the more you do this. Whether you want to practice mind over matter, remote viewing, or predicting the future, use these steps and apply them to what you are are looking to do. Remember that you are psychic and can do this.

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A kiss from a ghost

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

Everyone is curious about the paranormal. What is out there? Is it friendly? Can we interact with it? Ghost hunting teams are common now, and people are no longer afraid to speak publicly about ghosts, aliens, and other entities. I’m sure you either have experienced something paranormal, or you have heard about someone having supernatural contact.

There are all kinds of spiritual contacts. Some are pleasant. Some are horrible. Some are downright strange. What we all know is that spirits do exist. Depending on who you are, you may welcome the contact or be absolutely terrified of it. What you might not know is that a ghost can give you a kiss. That’s right. Pucker up because a ghost can give you a smooch.

You may wonder what happens when we cross over. Who do we become? What can we expect? Do we stay the same? I had someone say to me “I don’t know about you, but I’m kind of attached to who I am and really want to be me on the other side.”

Good news! Yes, people who have passed on keep their personalities. You don’t suddenly become totally different. If a man was a hopeless flirt in life, he still is on the other side. Some women are super outgoing and greet everyone with a peck on the cheek. Such people keep that aspect to their personalities when they cross over. You may come across such ghosts when going to a haunted location.

Yet you do not have to go to another location to experience this. A widow may feel the slight kiss on her lips as her deceased husband tries to ease her sorrow. A widower may report feeling the sensation of his wife’s lips on his cheek when having a bad time. This is quite common and has a deep effect on the spouse left behind.

There are also cases of cheeky ghosts who steal kisses when someone attractive comes around. These ghosts can be grabby and inappropriate. People will actually feel a kiss on the lips or cheek. Naturally people can be freaked out by this, and it creates lots of problems for a location. This is especially true if it happens in a place of business. It happens more than you think. In hotels where this takes place, guests will flee in the middle of the night. It has happened.

A traumatized child may feel a kiss on the forehead from a mother who passed. Children often have spirit contact after the death of a loved one. Reassurance is very important for children, and those from the other side recognize that. They make every effort to help, and one of the ways they do that is to let us know they are with us. They do their best to show affection and use touch, i.e. kiss, hug. This can mean the world to a child who is missing his mother or father.

For you pet lovers out there, I have interviewed people who lost their pets, and later they felt the sensation of their dogs and cats licking their hands and cheeks. Usually it happens when people are sad and grieving for their beloved animals. Individuals will see the imprint of their animal on the couch or bed as if moving toward them, and then they feel the kiss. We love our animals deeply, so this is so reassuring. It shows our animals survive death and still love us.

When it comes to spirits of humans, there are patterns to how the kisses feel. Those who have felt this ghostly kiss describe it as soft and sometimes very cold. Others say it makes their lips tingle. I’ve had people tell me it makes their entire bodies tingle. When coming from a loved one, it can make you feel a complete sensation of love. There is no other feeling like it.

There is so much more to this phenomena. Sometimes witnesses actually see the spirit when they get their kiss. If conditions are right and the spirit has a lot of energy, there can be contact and manifestation. It is not common to see and feel a spirit at the same time. Usually it is one or the other. But it does happen here and there.

If you have lost someone, you may get a kiss from the other side. In a haunted location, a flirty ghost may plant a quick kiss on your cheek. In those situations, there have been some cases where the spirit follows someone home! Though not common, it has happened. There are all kinds of situations where a spirit may reach out and kiss you.

Don’t forget that we live on after death. And don’t be surprised if you get a kiss from someone you love who has passed on. It may come as a complete surprise out of the blue one day. Let it remind you that life continues. You don’t really lose you loved ones. They go on after death and will come to reassure you.

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