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Belief can make you more psychic

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

Belief dictates the power of your mind. I am going to repeat that. Belief dictates the power of the mind

Our minds are massively powerful, more so than you may ever realize. Your ability to believe you can do something will determine whether you can do it. Research has shown that people who believe they are psychic do better with their psychic abilities. What so many people do not understand is that we are all psychic. Some have more natural ability than others, but everyone reading this has psychic skills. You just may not know it.

This is so very important because if you understand this, you will be able to do much more with your life. Too many people are dismissive of anything outside of our five senses. This hinders any natural psychic ability you may have. Belief will make it easier to connect with things which are unseen. When you believe, you won’t have a mental block in place to prevent you from sensing what is right around you. Why? You will be more psychic when you remove doubt.

Once you get rid of your mental block, you will have more contact with ghosts and ET’s. I know many people who were downright skeptics who began going on ghost hunts. After a while, they experienced all kinds of supernatural things. The more they opened up, they more they experienced. What you will notice is that your abilities will skyrocket when you take away the false notion that you can’t do something. If you think you can’t, then you can’t. You have to force yourself to think differently.

One could call it mind over matter, which it is. Whatever you want to name it, once you believe you can do something, then you will make progress. Belief unlocks the power of your thoughts. Thoughts are alive.  They impact us in every way. We can think ourselves sick, and we can think ourselves well. I’ll give you an example. Say someone is dying but wants to live long enough for a certain event. Despite all dire predictions of doctors, the person is able to live just long enough to see the event. The mind does that. Our will power does that.

The more everyone realizes that belief can impact all parts of their lives, the more powerful they become. Psychic abilities allow you to visit other places and connect with other entities. Increased psychic ability helps protect you and guide you to the right path. If you feel like you are stuck in life, you must first believe you can do something different before you can.

You need to change the way you think and focus on knowing you CAN pick up psychic information. You can talk with those who have passed all by yourself. First, you must believe that there are things out there that we cannot see. Understand that your loved ones who have crossed over are still alive in spirit. Believe that your mind is more powerful than you think.

If you transform your thoughts, your life will change. Take steps to open your mind. Mediate. Read about aliens, ghosts, and other phenomena. Get involved in paranormal groups. Let yourself believe.

When you realize that your abilities can be endless, you will come into your own power. You will grow as a person and find more contentment in your life. Mind over matter actually matters. Belief dictates the power of the mind.

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Abductees afraid ET’s will come back

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

After talking to a large number of alien abductees, I have noticed many patterns. These patterns are so obvious that these cases are not to be ignored. There are so many similarities in these experiences worldwide. For instance, I’ve interviewed abductees from Australia, New Zealand, Canada, Spain, England, Ireland, Africa, the US and others. It always amazes me how similar the abduction experiences are. They are so alike, it is eerie.

Fear is one of the top effects after contact. Abductees become terrified of several things. At first, they may not consciously remember what happened. The ET’s can erase memories. Yet, abductees know something is not right following the incident. Their anxiety is off the charts. This anxiety interferes with their lives, and it opens the door to questions. Abductees know something is off and want to learn what happened. But where do they turn?

While they struggle with their questions, they develop a terror which aligns with the location and time at which they were taken. Most often, abductees are snatched at night. Because of this, sleep is very difficult. In fact, many victims report that they will not sleep by windows or even in their beds. They can’t do it. Their fear is so terrible that they sometimes sleep in closets with the doors shut. Those who have firearms keep them close by. Some even hide under the bed. Remember, these are adults I am talking about.

Abductees struggle with the massive anxiety of feeling as if something is coming for them. After a while, they will get flashbacks which help fill in the blanks. They may even have a regression. When they do remember what happened, the fear gets worse. They are afraid that the aliens will come back.

Those around them do not understand the seeming irrational fear and subsequent behavior. After all, the abductees typically were normal people doing everyday activities when they were taken. Then, something changes. They become jumpy and will not sleep in the bed. They stay away from windows at night. They stare at the night sky for long periods of time. In short, abductees change dramatically. Family and friends see that something is different. Too often, abductees are told they are just upset or need therapy. However, traditional psychological interventions will not help in these cases. This is something of another world or dimension. Alien means alien; it is foreign to us. It sounds so crazy yet consider the possibility. Imagine that you are taken by creatures from somewhere else. You are experimented on and then left with a hazy memory of what happened. You have new scars or dried blood which show something really did happen. At the same time, you can’t tell anyone because they will think you are nuts. This is a horrible fate.

Naturally this increases abductee anxiety. Even today the idea of aliens snatching humans is considered the product of mental problems or someone making it up. People ask me why I even look at these cases, often with raised eyebrows and stern looks. Basically, even the researchers are considered strange, so what hope do actual abductees have of being believed?

It creates a perfect storm of massive anxiety and confusion. Coupled with the new feeling of constant terror, the abduction experience can ruin victims’ lives. I hate to see the dismissal of this phenomenon, but even with the government admission of UFO’s, people still do not believe. Yes, just because there are UFO’s does not necessarily mean we have ET’s. However, there is nothing to exclude that possibility either. I ask people reading this to open their minds and simply consider the possibility that abductees are telling the truth. What if they are? Read more about this subject, and you will find out that something is going on.

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You can call ET’s

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

There are many dimensions, many galaxies, many universes, and many planes of existence. Do you really believe that we are the only ‘intelligent’ form of life? There possibilities are endless. This means the possibilities of all kinds of life are endless.

Paranormal research does show evidence of something existing outside of us as humans. The ET abduction phenomenon shows us some creatures are secretly here interacting with us. Apparitions demonstrate some kind of view into another time. Ghosts haunt us. Demons, parasites or interdimensional entities can wreak havoc in our lives through psychological and physical traumas. These things are real, whatever you want to call them. People truly do have serious problems when they encounter such things.

In short, something is out there interacting with us. So you may wonder why anyone would want to call any of these things. Really, you probably do not. However, there are instances of ET contact which are good. They help people. This can point to more than one alien species being here because so many contact cases are negative.

The difficulty comes in finding the right ET’s. My own research into abduction cases leads me to believe that there are extraterrestrials who can play with our minds, neurological systems, and endocrine systems. They can also make us forget things. Talk about an unequal balance.

At the same time, I know people who have been cured of illnesses or disabilities after being in an alien’s presence. One woman who researches this phenomenon was cured of her endometriosis after reaching out psychically to these beings. Another who had suffered from meniere’s disease had it totally go away after an abduction.

One can call these beings. They are psychic and will hear you. Why they respond to some people and not others is a mystery. But you can always try. If you get on the right channel and connect with the right ET’s, you may find relief from a problem. It is clear that some want to help.

The best way to initiate contact is to find a private place which is quiet. Calm yourself and try to clear your mind. Focus on the feeling of being happy to ensure you are connecting with the right ET’s. Say out loud that you only want to reach benevolent aliens. Fix your mind on the good aliens and tell them who you are and why you want to talk to them. Some people will have a feeling of calm and a strange buzzing sensation in their bodies. Usually this means someone is listening to you. It is important that you enter this mindset with a pure heart. If you have bad intentions, it won’t work.

With time and practice, you can actually call these ET’s to you. When they see that you want peace and are not looking for trouble, they will come. This kind of contact enhances your sense of well being. It makes you feel better. And this is how you can tell if you have the right entity. If you feel worse after reaching out, then you got the wrong one. You want to disconnect from that and ask the positive to intervene to remove the negative. This does help.

You will know if you make contact because you will get a physical feeling which you have never felt before. They can manipulate our neurological systems and create sensations which are very pleasant. This is a way for an alien to initiate positive contact with us. There are good extraterrestrials which change people’s lives for the better. They actually vibrate, and your body will pick up on the vibration.

Protect yourself if you try this by only asking for contact with good. Meditate and focus your energy and thoughts. The more you do this, the better you will become at it. They will appear; it just takes time.

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If you think you have a ghost, ask what it wants

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

The lights in your home go on and off. Doors open and close by themselves. People sense something strange in your house. There is unexplained knocking. Things move on their own. Out of the corner of your eye, you see a male figure stroll down the hallway and through the wall. Through the wall! What in the world is happening?

At this point, you probably are scared out of your wits. Who wouldn’t be? After all, you have a spook in your home. You don’t know who this is. You don’t know WHAT this is. Does it mean you harm? Is it out to get you? Was this his home? Why is he there in your home?

This is a lot to take in during your already hectic life. You’ve got a job, relationships, family, friends, and responsibilities. Who has time for a ghost? Unfortunately, if you have one, then you have to deal with it. These things can become obtrusive and downright scary. Just being startled by something moving by itself could make you jump or trip. You could get hurt by that.

While you could call a psychic or paranormal team to help you, the most east way to handle this is to talk to the spirit. If you have never done this before, it can seem scary. Really scary. But don’t worry. Remember a ghost is just a person in spirit. If you saw a friendly old man walking down the street with his cane, would you turn and run away screaming from him when he smiled at you? Chances are you don’t. Well at least I hope you don’t.

So, if you see a figure of an old man walking down your hallway along with other strange happenings, consider talking to him. Introduce yourself and politely ask him who he is and why he is there. You may just get an answer. Also, it may help if you ask what the ghost needs. It may simply be that the spirit wants to let you know he is there. He may be worried about the house or even you!

There may be a perfectly innocent reason for the ghost to be there. In fact, he probably doesn’t want to harm or scare you at all. He may be surprised he has caused you stress. It is for this reason that you kindly but firmly tell the ghost that you need peace and quiet. Tell the spirit that he or she must let you sleep and not frighten you. Chances are, this will greatly help your situation.

You will be amazed how well this works. More often than not, it does help. If it does not, you can always call a paranormal team or psychic. But before you do that, try this simple step. It won’t cost you anything, and it could solve the problem.

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Do you have a hole in your heart & life?

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

Is there something missing from your life that you just can’t put your finger on? Do you do things in excess? Have you gotten yourself into trouble by going overboard trying to get a ‘high’ or a good feeling? Is it possible that you have wrecked good things in your life when life was going smoothly?

If you answered ‘yes’ to any of the following questions, then you definitely have a hole in your heart and life. You are acting out because something is missing. You can feel it, that void that just can’t be filled.

Because something so important to your core is missing, you try to fill it with the following:










Though some of these things in excess may not seem so bad (i.e. money, exercise), these actually can be very damaging if nothing else matters. That is, if you do anything for money all the time, and money is the only thing you care about, then this will have a horrible impact on your well being. Same thing goes for exercise. Exercising is great, but if you drive yourself too hard, you will actually harm your body. Again, I am talking about excess.

When people go overboard, they are looking for a distraction. They want an escape. Let me tell you folks, if you need an escape from your life, then something is not right. There is a hole you are trying to repair, but you are looking at the wrong things to help.

You can ignore reality, but you can’t ignore the consequences of ignoring reality. In other words, you can do all the drugs in the world, but it won’t make your core problem go away. Same with food, sex, spending etc. You can do these things all day long, but your inner struggle will still be there. Have you noticed that you repeat these behaviors over and over? You repeat because the behavior did not solve your problem. Most times, the problems become worse.

People use excess to hide from reality. I know, sometimes reality sucks so bad that you need a break from it. But using distractions too much will backfire on you. You have to address the real issue that is eating at you.

Are you missing real love in your life?

Did someone you love die?

Did your beloved pet pass away?

Were/are you abused?

Do people not appreciate you, the real you?

Is there something so painful in your heart that you just can’t bear to face it?

Do you feel ashamed of what you have done?

The list can go on and on. But it doesn’t matter which questions you answered ‘yes’ to. In fact, you may have answered ‘yes’ to all of them! The key is that there is something hurting you so badly that you are acting out to get away from it. In order to overcome these demons, you have to allow yourself to love yourself. This may sound hokey, but it is true. If you don’t love yourself, you will not be truly good to yourself. You won’t be any good to others either. When you don’t love yourself, you abuse yourself and allow others to abuse you too.

In order to love yourself, you have to be honest with yourself and take steps to get help. Help can be spiritual, psychological, or both. Sometimes we need a little assistance when things get too hard. Don’t be ashamed of that. We all struggle at times. You may be so overburdened that you don’t think you can take time for yourself. Remember that you are a worthwhile person who deserves help. Reach out for it if you are doing something in excess which is not good for you. No one will do that for you. You have to take the first step.

You may think that no one could ever understand you or that your pain is too deep to heal. It could be that you would never feel comfortable telling another human about your true pain and suffering. If that is the case, start by turning to the other side.

Connect with spirit. Meditate. Ask the other side for guidance. You may not have a spirit tap on your shoulder and say ‘hey bud, I’m here to help!’ But if you are sincere in asking for help, you will get it. You will be hit with inspiration or think of an answer to a problem you hadn’t thought of before. New people will cross your path who can assist you. You will begin to have spirit contact in dreams. This will put you on the right path so you can begin baby steps to improve. You have to learn how to train your brain to respond to stress and hurt. Spirit can help you do that. The other side can help bring you peace so that you are not hurting so much. Just realizing that there is more than this life can help you heal. It can quiet those painful thoughts you have in your head. Opening yourself up to the other side can save your life if you let it.

The point is, if you are struggling with out of control behavior, you are not alone. Everyone reading this currently has or has had a hole in their hearts at some point in their lives. This pain can drive you to make mistakes. It doesn’t matter how old you are or how jaded you have become, you can take steps to repair that broken heart. It takes time and small steps to push yourself, but you can be better. You have to let yourself receive assistance. Whatever you do, reach out for help. There is someone with a helping hand waiting to lift you up. You can be better if that is your sincere desire. You don’t have to be who you used to be. When you are on the right path, you do not feel the need to escape. You will feel comfortable and at home.

Spectral shadow man talking to victims

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

In the world of the paranormal, most people are familiar with the shadow man. This thing is a dark entity that looks like a living black shadow. People who encounter this creature are terrified by it. It is never positive. Those who have seen it felt drained afterward, as if it fed off of their fear.

It will appear when you are alone, often beckoning you to come outside. People will see it in their bedrooms and even their closets. He really seems to love basements, probably for the scare factor. He is darker than night, and you can see him even in a dark room. Many say that has a smoky appearance.

Over the years, I’ve had witnesses tell me about their experiences with shadow man. There are a lot of common factors in contact situations which lends credence to the stories. Shadow man seems to talk telepathically. Messages may vary, but many people report hearing the same phrase. When witnesses saw shadow man, they heard a specific phrase in their heads. I have no idea what this phrase means.

“F*** them all but six.”

You can speculate as to what this creature means because I do not know. Who are the six? Are they human? Are they something else? What does the phrase mean?

I wanted to put this out there to get feedback and your ideas. Have you heard of this before? If not, what do you think it means? I would love to hear your thoughts on this. It was such an unusual phrase that I had not encountered previously. It has to mean something. Feel free to comment. I would love to hear your theories.

Psychic mediums get rare non-fatal illnesses

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

If you a psychic medium, then the likelihood is that you have struggled with several health issues. Additionally, I’ve found that mediums will often have rare non-fatal illnesses which make their lives difficult. It is not uncommon for mediums to struggle with sickness most of their lives. They are survivors, but they can stumble with the heaviness of the load they have been given.

Whether it began in childhood or developed later, mediums suffer a variety of ailments. The most common illness is an autoimmune disease. The symptoms flare under stress and sometimes after doing readings, particularly if the person being read has an illness. The autoimmune disorders are painful and draining.

Other common illnesses mediums struggle with are migraines and headaches. This is very common and something the general public does not know. It seems to be a price a lot of mediums pay in order to connect with spirit. Some mediums report having head pain every day. Imagine a life where your head hurts all the time. Not fun.

I found it interesting that several mediums had gone through rare illnesses. Though they could have died from their sicknesses, they did not. The illnesses come out of the blue and do have devastating effects. The mediums can get so upset with this that their abilities temporarily go offline. They may even wonder if they have lost their ability to communicate with the other side. However, the confusion is temporary. If anything, the illness makes the ability stronger.

Mediums may wonder why they are hit with these illnesses, often repeatedly. I think part of it is that reading others takes more out of you than you think. You can absorb the problems of others, and your body may take on the characteristics of other people’s diseases. Or you may simply be so run down (more than you realize) and a weak point in your body gets out of whack.

Another factor people don’t consider is that mediums will be bothered by entities when they try to sleep. If they cannot sleep, they cannot restore themselves. Sleep is essential. Sometimes mediums can tune out entities and get to sleep. However, spirits can enter their dreams and still drain their energy while they sleep. This is no good and must be stopped.

You have to restore balance. If you are a medium and can relate to this, then you have to become even within yourself. You must weigh work and stress versus happiness and fun. If you are out of balance, you won’t do well.

For the mediums reading this: take care of yourself. If you are not in balance, you cannot help others. Are you happy? Do you smile more than frown? If not, you have to change something in your life. You can only be tilted to sadness so long before something bad comes your way.

Give yourself permission to take a vacation from readings if your work is weighing too much on you. It will make you a better medium when you are in balance and rested.

The illnesses seem to play some kind of role in medium abilities. It is so common that you cannot ignore the link. And mediums who do not keep themselves in balance will pay a price. People do not realize how much energy it takes to do readings. It can wear you out quickly, especially if you are suffering from a disease.

In the end, mediums lives are not easy. They struggle just like everyone else. Sometimes there are so many demands on them that they stumble and end up with their lives in a mess. If you find yourself in this position, know you must prioritize your health and get yourself back in balance. You will do better and be better for others.

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ET abduction case

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

I have been studying alien abduction cases for ten years now. I’ve interviewed many abductees, formed profiles of the abductions and after-effects, and have a blueprint for how these things occur. One of the more interesting cases I studied was that of a man named Ben. He lived in the northeastern United States in the 1970’s. It was there and then that he was taken.

Ben was alone driving on a back road at dusk in the late spring. This was along his daily drive to and from work. His was a mechanic. As it got darker outside, he noticed a small light in his rearview mirror. At first it seemed tiny and not big enough to be the headlight of a car behind him. Yet as he drove, he noticed that the light got bigger and disappeared. He wasn’t sure what to make of that but wasn’t overly concerned.

As he rounded a curve, he began having trouble with his car. It sputtered and came to a stop. When he got out to see what was wrong, he saw the light again in the distance. Ben thought it was another car and put his hand to partially cover his eyes. The light was so bright. He remembered that when he looked at it, his eyes burned and watered.

The next thing he remembered he was trying to run from something. He began to sprint away but found that he couldn’t move. Something was preventing him from running away. Nothing was touching him, but he couldn’t move.

His mind went blank.

He awoke in a very bright room laying on a cold table. It reminded him of the doctor’s office, only there wasn’t a sheet on the table. He was directly on what felt like metal. He heard what sounded like cicadas chirping, followed by another sound that he described as clicking. He didn’t see anything because the lights were so bright. Completely confused, he tried to move but couldn’t. The chirping sounds got louder, and then he saw the “monster.” This thing got close, laid on him and put its face right up almost against his. The thing was staring into Ben’s eyes. It was ugly. Ben described it as looking strange with yellow eyes. It “kind of looked like a huge mole face or something like that.” The skin was brownish-grey.

Ben described the creature as being irritated. It seemed like it was angry, and it was laying on him to scare him. As Ben said, “it worked.” During this entire time, he couldn’t speak. He couldn’t move. The thing kept right up on him staring into his eyes and chirping.

The next thing Ben knew, there was some kind of device pulling his eyelids apart while another creature did something to his eye. He doesn’t know what was done because he thinks he passed out. The next thing he knew, he was awake again, and he was still on the table. This time he could feel pain in his ear. He felt like someone had stabbed him in his ear canal.

The entire time he felt as if he had been drugged. Though he felt drugged, he was very clear on the things he did remember. One strange aspect he talked about was how the creature pulled out some of his leg hairs. It hurt but was not as bad as his ear pain. This whole thing was like a nightmare.

His description of the creatures was a bit fuzzy. Yet Ben remembered long grey/brown fingers. However, their fingers were not like ours. They only had a few fingers, not five. And again, Ben stated the fingers were very long.

While it had been very cold in the room originally, when the creatures were pulling his leg hairs, the room got hot. He recalled sweating profusely. The next thing he remembered was in the woods to the side of his car. He was on his knees. Ben was soaking wet with sweat. His clothing was wet too.

At that time, he was totally convinced that he had a nervous breakdown. He thought he had simply passed out and imagined the whole thing. The problem was, he had scratches around his eye, trouble seeing, and terrible pain in his ear. When he got home, there was dried blood around his ear. There was a red spot on his leg where he recalled having his leg hairs pulled. He had to go to the eye doctor who told him something had irritated his retina.

For a very long time, Ben kept this to himself. He never wanted to speak of it. With time, the nightmares became unbearable. He would sleepwalk at night if he could get any sleep at all. His wife told him he would scream in his sleep. He refused to sleep by the bedroom window but could never explain why.

Years later, he began having flashbacks. As the images became more clear, he could no longer ignore what had happened. He finally came forward and had a regression session. While he still has not been able to fill in all of the blanks, he did recall seeing a large flying object near his car before the abduction. He also remembered seeing the object seemingly turn into a large light and zip away at high speed.

He told me he cannot forget the face of the creature. He said that though popular media portray the image of an ET as the usual grey, the ones who took him looked different. He swears the mean one looked like a tall, human sized mole. He said he has never seen another ET picture like what he saw.

For so long Ben kept silent. Not only was he worried that people would think he was insane, but he was a practicing Catholic. He was terrified that somehow he had done something wrong. There was worry about how the church would view his experience. While he tried bringing up the experience to his family once, it didn’t go well. They made fun of him and told him he needed more sleep. This, of course, made matters worse. He did not pursue any more regressions after the one because he said it made him upset. He still doesn’t sleep well and suffers ear problems to this day. Ben was very down to Earth and said he doesn’t know what really happened to him. Yet he remembers it vividly. He spoke to me because he said he wanted others to know they are not alone if they experience this. He said no one should ever go through what he went through afterward. No one believed him, and it ruined his life.

This is a case example of an abduction. There are blanks and missing time. There is no neat little bow to wrap it all up. Ben had a good mental health history and was not a big drinker. He had not been drinking that day. He was coming home from work. Prior to the event, he had been sleeping well. No unusual stress. There was nothing to point to which would explain away the abduction. No history of mental illness in his family or any medical condition at all.

As you see, these cases bring up more questions than answers. Those affected can have their lives destroyed, and they live in fear that the creatures will come back. Some ET contact is benevolent, but too many are not.

If you have experienced ET contact, please contact me. I’m working to bring awareness and create profiles of these contacts to help victims.

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Spirits are on another frequency

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You may wonder where spirits or other entities really are. After all, we generally cannot see or hear them. Occasionally we may get a glimpse of the afterlife or entities from somewhere else. Your deceased mother may appear in the hallway, or your son who passed may talk to you in your dreams. Still, where exactly is someone who has crossed over?

It appears as if spirits share the same space that we do. Yet they do so in a different dimension. They exist on a separate frequency, and the reason we usually cannot see or hear them is because we are not tuned in. Think of it this way. When you are in your car with the radio on one station, you know that there are other stations out there. You don’t hear them when you have the radio set to a certain station, but you know if you change the tuner, you will get another station. You simply will have changed to another frequency.

Some people have enhanced psychic abilities and can tune in to this other frequency. No one quite understands completely why some people can do this. Brain scans conducted while a medium is reading someone show increased theta waves. A medium’s brain can look as if he/she is asleep while doing a reading. In other words, it is like the medium is unconscious while conscious. The medium brain does change while talking to the other side. Likely this is why more people report psychic dream visitations than actually seeing an apparition. It is easier for spirits to reach out to us in our dreams.

So, there is something about being in this ‘unconscious’ state which allows mediums to connect to the correct frequencies. This isn’t made up nonsense. There is actually a physical change in the brain. This opens up so many possibilities. What if we all could somehow get ourselves into this altered brain state? Perhaps everyone could see and hear spirits. It could help open up doors to other dimensions. There are so many exciting potentials.

If you are in pain and missing someone who has crossed over, then please know that your loved one still exists. You have not lost those precious to you. They are right here but they live on a different frequency which you may have trouble connecting to. With time and practice, you can learn to reach out to the other side and get messages. To understand this can help bring peace to your heart. All is not lost. Realize that one day you will see your loved ones again.

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Alien abductees feel dirty after contact

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

Et abductions can leave you with nasty scars. They can cause abductees to go insane. Abductions can ruin people’s lives costing them their jobs, relationships, and children.

Hearing this, it is no wonder abductees feel dirty after their experiences. It is very common for those who are taken to want to throw away their clothes or bedding once they realize what has happened. They take multiple showers and examine any scars and injuries over and over. If they do keep the clothes they wore during abduction, they will run them through the washer multiple times. It is the very rare abductee who keeps clothing from the experience. More of them want to erase any trace of the experience.


Abductees cannot believe what occurred. Not only were they taken, but they were taken by something not of this world. Think about that for a moment.

At first, those who were taken may feel like fools for even believing in such nonsense. After all……aliens? Who is going to believe them? Everyone will think they are nuts. For the record, it is not uncommon for abductees to think they are losing their minds. The totality of the experience can be too much for the human mind to process. It is so far-fetched that some abductees have breakdowns.

However, when there is physical evidence tied to the event, it becomes hard to dismiss. The scars that appear overnight are hard to ignore. Weird rashes suddenly occur. Radiation burns appear. No matter what you think, you cannot dismiss radiation burns. SOMETHING happened to these victims. You can argue whether the abductors come from outer space, but you cannot say that nothing happened.

So, there is physical evidence in these cases. There have been reports of a sticky substance left on the skin of abductees. The substance is only seen under fluorescent lighting. Again, those taken by ET’s want to get rid of this. They wash and wash over again in an attempt to forget what happened, even when their conscious minds do not recall right away.

For those out there who think this is comical, you do not know everything. As ET researcher Mary Rodwell says “we don’t know what we don’t know.” Sounds simple, yet it is true. We don’t know what is out there. And we certainly don’t know what we don’t know. However there have been enough of these cases with physical evidence to raise an eyebrow.

The thing is that those who are taken by what appear to be ET’s suffer bad effects. While some claim healings occurred afterward, the greater number have lots of problems stemming from the experience. There is no happily ever after for them. They live in torment as any victim would. What is worse here is that no one believes them.  That is why they want to forget. Yet they can’t forget. It isn’t fair to them, and they live out their lives suffering in silence.

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