By Deborah Kauflin, Ph.D.
It may sound strange, but having great sex can open spirit doors. Yes, I know, that sounds weird, but it really is true. Think about when you have hot sex. When you are passionate, you produce energy. Your mind relaxes, and you can almost fall into a trance. Basically passion excites the mind and body. Your sexual state of mind and energy combine like dynamite which can blast open a door to the other side.
Those who live in haunted locations will experience this, though they may be reluctant to talk about it. They are often embarrassed about what happened and feel shy that someone was watching them in their intimate moments. So witnesses are less likely to be open about what happened.
However, you don’t have to live in a haunted location to experience this. There are many people who have told me that paranormal activity BEGAN when they were having sex. Though they were fully into what they were doing, they couldn’t help but get distracted when they saw shadows moving around them as if watching. They describe the shadows as being blacker than the darkness, and the shadows had form. Usually there are more than one shadow beings when this happens. What scared some of the witnesses was when the shadow creatures bent down to get close. One woman said ‘it was like they were leaning in to get a better look.’ She said the ‘thing was a pervert.’
People also report objects moving around the room while they are making love, things that couldn’t have been knocked around by their sexual activity. Whispers were common too. It was as if they were on display in some gallery, and entities were talking about it. These were isolated locations. There were no other people around, and no radio or other devices were on. Furthermore, a few told me that lights would flash on and off when this happened. They would hear thumping sounds out of nowhere when they stopped. It was like something was banging on the ceiling or walls. And no, there were no people in rooms above them having fun of their own!
Two men spoke about seeing what looked like an alien when they were having sex. It appeared in the corner of the room, and they both saw it. They swear that it had big black eyes and a large head, and it seemed to ‘walk through the wall.’ They are convinced that the entity was an extraterrestrial. In fact, there are many who say that the ‘spirits’ watching sexual behavior are aliens who are observing us on Earth.
On the other hand, several witnesses reported seeing human figures that they could see through. Those people swear that the entities were ghosts. The truth is that we don’t know exactly WHAT is watching when people are intimate. But there is SOMETHING that is attracted by human passion.
An interesting point was that those who said that they saw alien creatures did not continue to experience paranormal activity after the sighting. Yet those who saw black shadows or see-through humans DID continue to experience paranormal activity. This was a clear distinction and points to multiple types of entities.
For those who did continue to have paranormal activity, the ‘hauntings’ tended to be negative. This makes sense because one would think that decent, good entities would respect privacy and not watch intimate encounters. Think of the peeping tom who stalks neighborhoods at night. These aren’t stellar citizens. They are predators. So this raises questions about the safety of those who experience paranormal encounters while having sex. That is, do those beings who come to watch sexual encounters have bad intentions?
Another theory is that the people themselves CREATE the phenomena. That is, the individuals present are somehow interacting with their environments and causing the poltergeist activity.
One thing is for sure. The mentality of being sexually excited coupled with the energy produced by sexual behavior opens some kind of portal or draws/creates entities. It seems to act like a magnet to them. If you have had such an encounter, please let me know. I keep witness information confidential.