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Is there a goblin in the house?

Copyright Deborah Schurman-Kauflin

Have you seen them? They are small,  around 3 feet tall, and they look disgusting. Mucus drips from their noses and mouths. When this snot gets on people, it burns the skin. Their eyes are small and beady, black in color. Their skin can appear any color from black, grey, and even green. One of the scarier features of this thing is its teeth. They are ragged and sharp. Often something like little pieces of meat hang from the teeth edges.

Okay, I am not saying this next fact to be funny, but when they are around, they smell like farts. I know what you are thinking, but a few people have told me this. They have described it like the worst fart you have ever smelled. The reason I mention this is because one man told me that he and his kids kept seeing this thing in his house at night. It stunk. Without fail, the next day, the family dog would go to where the goblin had been and poop on that spot. This was not typical. The dog was fully house trained. Another woman said something similar.

Personally I believe these little monsters lure pets to a certain spot in your house and entice them to go to the bathroom there to mark their territory. The little terrors get a big laugh out if it.

Goblins make life miserable for everyone. They are nothing but trouble. While not as malicious as a demon, they are mean and want to do mischief. It’s like having a spoiled rotten brat in your house who purposely leaves toys on the stairs so you trip and fall. That’s the kind of thing these creatures will do. 

They make a low groan, kind of like a bullfrog. Their vocalizations tends to be deep in tone. Occasionally, they make a quick set of sounds which is a little different. It is like the ticking sound when your engine won’t turn over. Now the most weird thing is that some people report that goblins will talk. If you catch them when they don’t want to be seen, they will engage in a conversation. It is as if since you caught them, they owe you the courtesy of a talk. 

Last, goblins steal. They are greedy and will take small items. Unlike most poltergeist situations, the items taken do not come back. A talisman has been known to ward them off. Sometimes they will accept an offering of food in order to leave you alone. If they really don’t like you, they will make your plumbing act up, and your toilets will never work right. Your house will always smell as if the little jerk was there laughing at you.

All kinds of strange creatures exist. We may laugh or make fun of such stories, yet people of all backgrounds report these things. They are not all crazy. And you know that legends always come from somewhere. Too many people are quick to dismiss the supernatural. Even some in the field scoff at the strangest tales when they should know better since they have seen so many unusual happenings themselves. Don’t blow off someone who tells you these stories. They may very well be telling the truth.

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Dark spirits come for bad people when they die

Copyright Deborah Schurman-Kauflin

Nurses have all kinds of stories to tell. They have seen everything. These wonderful people  are some of the strongest and most down to Earth individuals you will ever meet. Nurses who have dealt with dying patients have seen remarkable things. When you talk to a nurse, you will learn that they are caring and very straightforward people. They tell it like it is.

Having said that, let me tell you what I have learned from nurses about being around those who are dying. Something or someone comes to greet those who are crossing over. Who or what comes depends on the type of person you are.

First let’s talk about the good. Nurses report angelic entities entering a room right before sweet patients die. There is a peace surrounding these deaths. No wailing. No gnashing of the teeth. A calm envelops the patients. Often the dying people will call out with joy as they see long dead family members and friends coming to collect them. There is little fear, only smiles as the dying see their long lost loved ones. Nurses report that the rooms feel peaceful. In some cases, medical personnel actually see angels or spirits themselves. The entities are right in front of them. They say they could almost touch them. Blissful is the way to describe such the dying who are going ‘home.’

On the other hand, nurses report something terrifying when it comes to bad people. In cases where miserable, angry, hostile, violent, and abusive patients get close to death, something diabolical comes. Demons? Devils? Whatever arrives sends the patients into a full blown panic.

There have been a lot of situations where nurses report family members telling them how awful the dying patient was in life. Family talks and talks and talks. Death makes old repressed emotions come to the surface. So family will tell medical personnel all about the terrible things the patient had done to them. Sometimes families do not tell these stories until after the death. One nurse said he always knew when he was going to hear negative stories about the patient after death. It was because the only ones who were fighting tooth and nail against an invisible reaper were those described as rotten in life.

In these cases, the stories are similar. As the patient gets closer to death, the room gets unexplainably cold. Staff and the patient get the feeling that something has come into the room. It gets colder, and the patients freak out, desperately try to fight off whatever is there. The patient will scream, yell, and punch in an attempt to stop the darkness which has come for them.The dying will ask the nurses if they see it (the entity).  The dying beg for help. In some instances, a few nurses have seen a dark mist. They stated that it did not feel friendly and it made them scared or uncomfortable.

One nurse said “I swear I thought whatever was there for this man was going to literally pull him out of bed right in front of me. He was fighting so hard. I’ve never seen a patient flip out like that.”

Nurses will often get an order for more medication to calm the patient. However, it does not work. The dying are literally kicking and screaming to the grave. But no matter how hard they fight, the grave always wins. The darkness will get what it came for.

The question is: what is coming for them? Is it the Devil? Satan? Demons? Whatever it is, it scares the dying so much that they flail and kick and scream to try to stop it. You might think it is just a side effect of medicine or hallucinations at the end of life. Yet, medical staff have witnessed the dark entities as well. It isn’t just one patient seeing it. And the dark shadow thing only comes for those who were described as being rotten. In any event, none of us want to see this when we are close to the end. I think there is a fate far worse than anything we could see on this Earth waiting for those who abused life.

I think what it comes down to is that the narcissists and psychopaths never believed they would have to pay for what they had done in this life. When they realize the bill is due, they make a futile attempt not to pay. It never works though.

I asked the nurse who thought an entity might pull her patient out of the bed in front of her, what she believed about what had happened. She sighed and asked if I wanted the truth. I told her, of course I wanted the truth. Then she said “I think it dragged him to hell.”

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Haunted by the demonic old hag

copyright Deborah Schurman-Kauflin

One of the most terrifying hauntings is the one that involves the old hag. If you are living with this, then you have a real problem on your hands. You likely have a portal in your home, and something horribly dark has found its way in.

The demonic hag never begins her haunting quickly. She likes to take things slowly. So you might not even realize she is there for a while. You will notice little things first. 

She comes after dark. Her favorite game is to wait until you are alone. Then she slowly makes soft noises to get your attention. She will lightly tap on your window. She will creak your closet door open. You will hear bangs on the floor. Sometimes footsteps can be heard. A lot of people will hear a distant cry or scream, like a banshee. 

Then when she has your attention, you will begin to see shadows moving around.Sometimes the shadow will peek out behind a door. Other times, you will see a full blown shadow person marching down your hallway. The shadow game goes on for a long time. The shadow will appear one place and then disappear into a wall.

With time, families will see the hag’s face slowly materialize in the darkness. The face is that of an old, decrepit woman.Her eyes will be black or even red. This spirit likes to hide under your bed or in your closet. She will come out during the day but mainly enjoys terrorizing her victims at night

As she gets closer to you, her face will fully appear. What you will notice is her long crooked nose, bad teeth, and black or red eyes. She also likes to wear a hood. Some people have described her as looking like the old hag from Snow White. 

She really is a wretched creature who has a bad smell. That’s what people point out: she has a putrid scent. You may find yourself alone at night, then you catch a whiff of something totally rotten. The knocking and footsteps begin, and then you know you are in trouble. If she really is out to get you, she will materialize right in front of your face as she wakes you up in the middle of the night. She likes to come calling around 2 AM. 

This is what people would refer to as a demonic entity. Basically it is a threatening haunting. It means something dangerous has slithered its way into your home. It has the intention to do harm and will if you don’t get help. These hauntings are so strong that many people will see this hag. They get hurt. And the injuries never fully resolve. This thing is scary and can seriously hurt you. It can kill your pets.

I don’t want to scare anyone, but people have had terrible results from living in a home with this parasite. It feeds off of your fear and gets stronger the more afraid you get. It is sinister and will ruin your life. Many years ago I did not believe this stuff happened. But after over a decade of studying this, I am certain these things exist. They are real. They are here, and they are dangerous.

I have actually seen this thing. While working with a family on a vicious haunting, I had a horrible nightmare. It was her, the hag. Dressed in black, she was looking away. Slowly she turned her head toward me. She was smiling an evil smile, and I knew immediately what was happening to that family. It took three separate holy men to come out to the home and get rid of it. The creature is very stubborn. It is like a tick that burrows into your skin. It won’t willingly let go.

So don’t make the mistake of thinking you can handle it on your own. You will need assistance. Get rid of it before it harms you or your loved ones. It is for real. 

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Is a ghost scaring you?

Copyright Deborah Schurman-Kauflin, Ph.D.

Has something scared you but you don’t know exactly what it is? Do you think something may be haunting your home? If so, you probably have a spirit in your house. If you strongly believe that something is there, then something is there.

I know how scary it can be when you think that a ghost is lurking around every door. It is more common than you think. I’ve been studying the paranormal for 15 years and from my experience, spooky encounters are becoming more frequent. Some say it is because the veil between our realm and the other side is thinning. Whatever the reason, I’m seeing an increase in these cases.

Some signs that you are haunted are:

  1. Hearing footsteps when no one is there

On of the most common signs is when people in your home hear phantom footsteps. It is like someone is walking around when no one is there. One of the weird things about this is you will go look for where it is coming from, and it will change to always be behind you no matter where you go. It is like these entities like playing games.

2.  Hearing voices or muffled voices when no one is around

Another sign is when you hear someone talking or calling to you when no one is there. Often the voices will be muffled. You won’t be able to understand what is being said. An important key here is that more than one member of the household hears it. In most cases, multiple people hear these sounds.

3.  Pets reacting to something when nothing is around

This is a huge one. If your animals are seeing things and freaking out, then you know something is there. Animals hear frequencies we don’t. They see things we don’t. They will alert you when there is a presence in your home. Dogs will bark, growl, and spin in circles. Cats hiss, arch their backs, and even attack what the air. What is happening is they are going after a spirit. Your pets may come to you, trying to lead you somewhere. They are trying to warn you. Animals are some of the best paranormal detectors. 

4. Unusual, repetitive dreams

You may have weird nightmares night after night. You will dream about a person being killed or a tragic event. It happens over and over. You will see the same unknown people you have never seen before. You will be able to describe these unknown people to others. Bad nightmares include seeing some kind of creature. If you see a monster, that means you have something much worse than a ghost.

5. Strange shadows moving around

Sometimes spirits manifest as a shadow. They look like a dark form moving around your home. Many people report these things slinking along the floor, as if crouched down. It is creepy. People who witness this are more likely to have a negative haunting.

6. Electrical appliances acting weird

When spirits or ET’s are around, electrical equipment goes haywire. Batteries drain immediately. TV’s and lights go on an off. Toys without batteries may ‘come to life.’ This is so powerful it can even impact your cars and trucks! If you have spirit activity, you will have all kinds of difficulty with appliances, electric, and motors. 

7. Objects disappearing and reappearing someplace else

For some reason, entities seem to have fun moving our stuff around. Your keys may disappear from the counter and reappear in the bathroom drawer. Objects will be moved. You will be sure you closed your kitchen cabinet doors. Then you to into the kitchen, and they are open! You will notice if these types of things are going on. There’s no way to ignore it. 

Life is hard enough. You don’t need this kind of stress. This above is not a total list of haunted happenings. These are simply a few things to look for if you are wondering what is going on in your home. 

You may not know where to begin if something like this is happening to you. Let me tell you, there are all kinds of people who will be happy to help.There are local paranormal groups, researchers, psychics and others out there who will assist you. 

While some hauntings are benign, many are not and cause all sorts of problems. They can even make you sick. Reach out if you are worried because help is available. This is especially true if you have children in your home. Don’t suffer alone.

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Using paranormal for revenge

Copyright Deborah Schurman-Kauflin, Ph.D.

Payback is a bitch. That’s the old saying. The drive to make people pay for what they have done to you is very strong. If you have been wronged, you might wonder what you can do to get justice. Will the courts help? Well, let’s face it, lots of courts are corrupt. Can the police do anything? If you can’t prove a crime, then no. And sometimes, the rotten things people do to you are not really criminal. They may be immoral but not criminal. You can’t do anything.

So what does that leave? 

While some people are able to forgive, many are not. For those who have been hurt too much, forgiving is not an option. Some turn to vigilante justice. However, you can get in big trouble for that. You may want to get even, but you don’t want to go to jail. No vigilante justice.

I’ve been studying the paranormal for 15 years, and in my research, I came across a pocket of individuals who had problems with bad spirit activity after they summoned something or cast spells to get back at those who hurt them. 

You may wonder if the revenge worked in these cases. The short answer is “yes.” But, those who participated in it ended up having horrible hauntings or negative happenings afterward. 

A couple of the methods used included summoning entities, cutting deals, making sacrifices, casting spells, and using other methods of dark magic. 

First I’d like to say, magic in and of itself is not evil. It is the intent behind it that matters and the type used. In all these cases, the intention was wildly negative. The goal was to make a target suffer, be harmed, and even die. 

You might scoff at this, but this stuff can work. In my research, I’ve seen proof it does work. I studied the cases below, and let me tell you,there is something scary at work out there. We are living side by side with something we cannot see. Some have found ways to tap into it. 

One example included a young woman named Raven who used spells to infest the dreams of the ex-boyfriend who cheated and dumped her. Sounds relatively harmless, right? Wrong! Raven used a dark spell in order to make her ex have rotten nightmares every night. The goal was to make sure he never slept. 

I’m not going to list out the specifics of what was used, but I will tell you that some elements involved the victim’s hair and animal fat. In the end, her ex came over to her apartment begging for her to stop what she was doing. He was a wreck and hadn’t slept well for weeks. Since she had bragged about what she had done to mutual friends, he knew it was her behind his nightly terrors. Being somewhat merciful, Raven decided he had suffered enough and took steps to reverse what she had done. 

What came next was frightening. SHE began to have nightly terrors. Every night she would have a horrid dream where a grayish/black shadow creature attacked and choked her. She would wake in the middle of the night coughing and gasping for air. She even saw the beginnings of red marks around her neck.

Terrified, she threw all her spell making tools away and began praying. It didn’t stop though. It went on for months until she went to a holy man and received a blessing. Overnight the nightmares ceased. She was warned never to even look at the dark magic information again. And she hasn’t. It scared her so much she vowed to never do it again, but strangely she said she was glad she had done it. “He deserved it,” she crowed. “Cheaters beware!” she said.

Another case involved a woman in her 60’s named Grace who had been maimed by a pain management doctor. He messed up an epidural steroid injection. As a result of his carelessness, she got arachnoiditis, one of the most painful conditions you can have. The pain is excruciating and the doctor was to blame. The damage was permanent. Grace would never live without pain again or walk right. As a side note, did you know many countries have banned epidural steroid injections? Did you know the steroid is contraindicated for use in the epidural space? Did you know it is not FDA approved? Chances are if you had one of these things, your doctor didn’t tell you this. Doctors make a lot of money from these shots, so they don’t usually want to warn that you could be paralyzed or end up in horrific pain forever.

So this poor woman ended up with an excruciating pain all the time because of this wretched doctor. After she reported what had happened, the doctor dropped her as a patient. She was told to never come back! He was a real SOB. 

Having little recourse against this Goliath and the medical system, Grace was despondent. She decided to take a dark route and began reading about demons who she could summon and ask for help. She said she went through many, many old books before she found one which gave her the answer she was looking for. For her part, she had to cut herself and make a promise to the darkness to get what she wanted. What did she want? 

Here’s what she said in her own words:

“He killed me. He ruined my life. I’m in pain 24/7 and no doctor will treat my pain. They won’t touch me. They’re afraid of giving pain meds, you know. He got away with it with no consequences. I can’t kill him myself, but what I wondered was… if something else could?”

She wouldn’t give exact specifics on what she did, but she told me enough. It involved her blood, demonic experts, and an offering. It’s gross guys; however she was willing to give it what it wanted.

In summary, she wanted the thing to kill the doctor who ruined her life. Though it may be hard to believe, it seemed to work. Within three months, this young doctor was killed in a car accident. It was a freak accident where the other driver had taken his eyes off the road to look at a text. 

Did the evil spirit kill the doctor? Could this woman have summoned something diabolical? Certainly the timing was suspicious, and Grace wholeheartedly believes it. She was quite proud of herself. 

“It was worth it. He hurt me; I hurt him” she laughed as she told me. “He won’t hurt another patient.”

I asked if there were any consequences for what she did. “You mean, did it want my soul?” She laughed again. It was really weird how flip she was about it. She was matter of fact when she replied “I lost my soul a long time ago. The train can’t be stopped. It already left the station.” But she wouldn’t explain much more. She did show me a news video detailing the car accident which killed her doctor. 

Another case involved a young man named Omar who had been bullied relentlessly while growing up.Once he reached adulthood, he got into the dark arts. He considered himself to be a warlock. He said he mostly cast spells to get small favors like getting a job or promotion or even a raise. According to him, he was powerful and his spells worked. 

Over time, he kept having flashbacks to a neighbor boy who tortured him when he was young. He knew this boy had grown into a local sports star and played on college team. Every weekend, he watched the news with his nemesis in the sports highlights. He kept wondering why this guy should have such a great life after what he had done when they were kids. It had been a brutal sexual attack, and Omar had a steaming hatred of the neighbor. 

So he came up with a plan. Unlike the woman above, he didn’t want the man dead. Instead he wanted his enemy to lose what was most dear to him. Since the neighbor played sports, his athletic ability was his prize. So Omar targeted the man’s legs. He cast several spells over a period of months.

To Omar’s delight, his nemesis suffered a career ending injury on the field. He said one of the happiest days of his life was when he watched the man who raped him be rolled off the field on a gurney. He claims he has never done such a thing again and that he knows one day he will pay a dark price for what he did. He hinted that something was already happening to him. He had genuine fear in his eyes as he said that we all pay in the end.

Frightening.

You might think that these people regretted their decisions after seeing the results. Yet the majority did not. Getting justice was more important than anything else. Though they had to pay a price, the price was worth it.

You could make the mistake of thinking that dark forces only exist in Hollywood and religion. But you would be deadly wrong. There are forces at work that you really do not understand. I know many people will find it far fetched, yet I’ve seen stuff that would make your head spin. We are only now beginning to understand that there really are other dimensions and cruel extraterrestrials. Who is to say what they can and cannot do?

There are people out there with little to no hope of ever making their lives better. Suffering so much makes them turn to something they shouldn’t. They knock on dark doors not really understanding what is going to answer. 

You can use the paranormal to exact revenge on your enemies. However, I do not recommend it. The price you pay will be way more than you could ever imagine.

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Are you a magnet for the paranormal?

Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin

If you are here, chances are you have spied a ghost, been visited by an alien, caught a glimpse of Bigfoot, encountered a fairy, or come across something that cannot be explained. That is OK. You are in the right place.You are amongst friends here.This is the site for all paranormal happenings. People who know me well say I am the queen of the strange and unusual. Things happen to me that just don’t happen to other people. You may have this too!

If you have seen, heard, or been touched by a paranormal entity, you are not alone. Loads of people live with this each and every day. 

Slowly, society is accepting that there is something else in this world. You can turn on Travel Channel and view a wide array of programs covering everything from demons to Mothman. This is wonderful because it mainstreams the subject. And it lets others know that these things do happen. 

I am a psychic medium and have been since I was very young. I am a retired criminal profiler and worked hundreds of serial murder, serial rape, sexual homicides and abductions across the United States. I taught thousands of detectives, police, military intelligence, CIA, FBI, attorney general investigators, prosecutors, and others.  I even interviewed 25 serial killers and mass murders for research and my Ph.D. I wrote THE book about female serial killers, creating their profiles based on my interviews with them. I also wrote a book on profiling sadistic serial killers and another book about profiling terrorists. I tell you all this because I want you to know that I’m a very serious person, and I know for a fact that the paranormal is real.

I myself have seen apparitions, felt the touch of a spirit, witnessed poltergeist activity,  even viewed aliens when doing psychic readings for alien abductees. FYI, they really are here. All this may be hard to believe, yet if you are a paranormal target, you know what I’m talking about. I’ve been studying the paranormal for about 15 years, aliens for almost 10. These things are real folks. They really are. Whether you choose to acknowledge them is up to you.

If you are a paranormal magnet, your life will be interesting, to say the least. For the unlucky, this can be absolutely terrifying. Dark energy does exist, and it attacks human beings. It goes after animals and can target every aspect of your life. Though such frightening stories are frequently featured in tv and movies, it hasn’t slowed the demonic down one bit. The darkness still terrorizes people with no end in sight.

If you have a ton of bad luck, you may want to find out if you have a dark entity around you. What I usually find is that if you have been hit by one bad thing after another in your life, you likely have something negative with you. Fifteen years ago, I wouldn’t have believed that, but I’ve seen enough at this point to know it is happening. Some people are plagued by evil. 

A lot of paranormal victims move to get away from their supernatural tormentors, but the creatures follow them. It’s not that easy once one of these things find you. Imagine having something unseen going after you in your home. Then you move to escape it. To your utter amazement, it starts up again as soon as you move into your new home. What a nightmare! Whatever you are dealing with, most tag along when you go. ET abductions don’t stop with a move. Demonic will follow you. These entities can find you anywhere.

Not all is doom and gloom. Luckier people only experience the positive aspects of spirit, Bigfoot, fairy or ET contact. They don’t get sick. They don’t get attacked. The entities are benevolent and even bring peace to a home or land. Usually those with these types of contacts don’t find their way here. It isn’t causing a problem for them and may even enrich their lives. They don’t need help but only may search for validation. It is reassuring to realize that what you are seeing is real!

However most people who make their way onto this site are having issues. Perhaps the worst are those who are taken against their will by extraterrestrials. The abductions can continue for an entire lifetime. Sickness typically follows as well as massive stress and inability to sleep. If you have this type of thing going on, it is best to get help. It doesn’t stop on its own.  ET contact can ruin your life if you are not careful.

There are so many types of paranormal contact. It would make your head spin if you delve into all this. Whatever reason you are on this site, the likelihood is that you have come across something that made you pause and ask what is happening. 

If you live with this kind of thing, it can take over your entire world. It can disrupt work and your relationships. Such strain can even ruin marriages . Divorces often follow demonic hauntings or alien abductions. Worse yet, people have had custody of their children threatened if they dare talk about what is going on behind closed doors. It’s a lose/lose situation. 

What then happens is that people become prisoners of these entities. Captive in their own homes. Worse yet, if you study these cases you will find that most people live through more than one event. Witnesses won’t just see a ghost once. Sightings will be followed by poltergeist activity. Marks may appear on the body because entities can touch you. You’ll have weird dreams. It’s the same for alien cases too. It won’t simply be one event. You may not remember more than one event, but ET’s don’t simply appear once. There will be more. The contact will permeate everything. Flashbacks. Increased psychic awareness. Post traumatic stress. Illness, often autoimmune, will appear.

So how can you deal with all this? 

It’s easy if you have something benevolent. You can simply acknowledge what is happening and sometimes even communicate with whoever or whatever is in your home. For you, the kind contact is a gift which shows you there is more than this life. It is a window into another dimension. Nice entities enrich your environment. If you re one of these lucky people, you should tell your stories because it can help others see that we are not alone. This could benefit countless numbers of suffering people. With the COVID lockdowns, huge numbers are suffering from depression. Knowing there is more than this life could mean the world to them.

On the other hand if you are having negative experiences, it is best to reach out for help. As I said before, these things do not stop on their own. In fact, it only gets worse with time. Though some people can simply move and have the activity cease, the majority of cases do not. It WILL come back later. Don’t be fooled by a long lull in activity. Once these things get their claws into you, they don’t want to let go. It may even be years before they make themselves known again.

Evil never gives up.

With the stress, fear, and confusion, it is essential that you talk to someone who can try to help. Demonic hauntings can be fought, but you will always have to watch your back. With the right intervention, it can be resolved.

Extraterrestrial abduction on the other hand is much more difficult. These energies have abilities and technology we don’t. They are ten steps ahead of us. But don’t make the mistake of holding it all in. Just talking to understanding people can help your stress level. Hypnotic regressions can be soothing and reveal information that can be of great use in dealing with otherworldly contact. The more you know, the more you can fight.  

I should mention there is a group of individuals who are taken by ET’s who say their experiences are good. They mysteriously get cured of horrible illnesses, and their lives improve. They are gifted with telepathic and healing abilities, as well as hard science skills (math, physics).  While most of these people understand that others don’t have similar experiences, unfortunately there are some who will not acknowledge that bad contact happens. In short, because they only experienced good things, then all contact must be good in their eyes. Of course they are completely wrong, but don’t waste your time arguing with them. If you have been hurt by these things, you have been hurt. Period. Yet there is something you can do if you have been living this nightmare. You can work to take control back.

The main thing is: don’t suffer in silence. If you are struggling with the paranormal, there are groups, professional investigators, psychologists and others who can assist. Though asking for help may not bring immediate relief, those you reach out to may have resources and know others who can make a difference for you. Never give up. 

Breakthroughs happen. In some cases, just talking about what you have gone through can soften your outlook. Seeing you are not alone can really help. So don’t feel hopeless if you are going through one of these frightful events. It can get better. 

Read through my articles below. I talk about patterns and similarities among those who have paranormal experiences. When you realize others have dealt with the same stuff, it can make things easier for you. I sometimes write in a humorous manner. I do that to help those who are afraid, to make it easier for those who are scared. So take a look at the information in my other articles. It may just help open a door for you so you can make your life better.

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When ghosts are nothing more than your own trauma

By Deborah Kauflin, Ph.D.

Many people believe their homes are haunted. In fact, they are downright convinced of it. Yet in a lot of cases, the ‘ghost’ is nothing more than a mixture of family trauma and negative life situations. What I mean by that is a large number of cases where homeowners believed they were haunted were actually not haunted at all. Well, they may have been haunted by a horrible life tragedy, but there was nothing paranormal going on.

You have to be careful if you think that you are being haunted. Because if you come to believe that there is a specter watching your every move, then you can become anxious, paranoid, and even frightened. I’ve worked with people who thought that they had ghosts in their homes. In reality, there was no ghost or demon. The things that they mistook for supernatural happenings were actually just everyday occurrences that were misinterpreted.

Life is hard. For some people, it is excruciating. Whether they go through a chronic painful illness which doctors seem unable to help, or they suffer from tragedy after tragedy, the trauma can be too much to handle. When this happens, the human mind searches for an explanation. Sometimes that leads them to the paranormal.

For example, Minnie was left by her cheating husband with four young children. Naturally the cheater skipped out of town and on alimony too. Minnie was overwhelmed. Then life hit her with a brick. She came down with all kinds of weird symptoms. Her eyes would go in and out of focus. She’d feel numb in her legs and arms. Sometimes, she had trouble walking. To the doctors she went, and the doctors failed her. They saw her as a middle aged woman who was malingering. In truth, she was suffering from early Multiple Sclerosis. It took several years before she found one competent doctor who was able to diagnose her.

In the meantime, Minnie had convinced herself that a bad spirit was haunting her home. The walls seemed to bang out of nowhere. Her wallet was never in the last place she left it. There was a cold spot in the dining room. Then there were those horrible dreams where something was chasing her. Because she was so stressed, every time one of these things would happen, she told her young children that an evil spirit was after them. It follows that the kids then began noticing every noise and bump, and they too, became convinced that a dark entity was stalking them.

When dinner was left in the stove too long, it was obviously the ghost. When Minnie tripped over the bathroom carpet, clearly it was the ghost. When the kids had nightmares, to them, it was a demon out to get them. Whatever goes wrong in the course of a normal day was attributed to the paranormal. And it made this family wild with fear.

They all ended up sleeping in the same room, taking turns trying to get rest so the ghost wouldn’t get them. The kids would go to school exhausted because, well, the demon had kept them up. At least in their mind it had. Their school work began to suffer, and Minnie simply collapsed. As sick as she was, she couldn’t go on and was absolutely convinced that the evil spirit had caused her divorce, her illness, and kids’ problems. Minnie’s behavior got bizarre as a result. She went so far as to run out of the bathroom with the trash when she was having her menstrual cycle. The reason? She felt if any blood was left in the house that it somehow ‘fed’ the demon. Minnie ended up having a priest come bless her home, she was so scared.

After this went on for almost a year, Minnie’s mother ended up taking the children and Minnie in. At first, every time they heard a snapping noise or bump, they would all jump with fear until Minnie’s mother reassured them that it was just the wind outside, the ice tray, or the refrigerator. It took several months of Minnie’s mother making great efforts to explain things and clam them down before they began to understand that they had not been haunted at all.

Still terrified of the whole thing, Minnie wanted her home (which had sat vacant for three months) to be tested by paranormal investigators. She wouldn’t believe her mom, but she would believe them. Investigators took a look at Minnie’s house and did several overnight stays. It didn’t take long to figure out that the bumps and bangs that the family had heard were the results of the pipes and the heating ducts moving and banging. The cold spot in the dining room? The window had been left open a tiny bit by accident. So chilly air was coming in at that spot. Minnie kept tripping on the bathroom carpet because one of the tiles underneath it had come loose. Where the tile was loose was the exact spot Minnie kept tripping on. And the nightmares were just that: nightmares. No more. No less.

Poor Minnie and her children had been so scared that they let fear override their common sense. If Minnie had investigated instead of jumping to conclusions, she and her children would not have lost a year to an unfounded terror. However, she had been horribly scarred from her divorce and disabling illness. It was too much.

After the investigation showed her that there was nothing in her home, she and the kids moved back in. With the window closed and tile fixed, there were no more cold spots or tripping accidents. The paranormal investigators had told her to have a plumber secure the pipes, which she did. Then the noises were no longer heard. Problems solved. Her son admitted to being the one who had been moving her wallet when he was sneaking dollars here and there. It was just one big mess.

Now don’t make the mistake of thinking that it is just females who have this issue. Unfortunately, there have been some scientists in the paranormal field who have painted women who have supernatural experiences as nutcases, and these scientists have done a great disservice to the field by using a broad brush. To these scientists, women who have paranormal experiences, especially poltergeist experiences, are hysterical personalities and attention seeking. While this may be true of some people (male and female) who are encountering paranormal happenings, it is certainly not true of all. This ghastly mischaracterization sets the field back. I’ve known women who have experienced actual poltergeist activity, witnessed by others, and these women are solid emotionally.

Both men and women can mistakenly come to believe that there is a ghost in their homes when nothing is there. I know of a man who became convinced that he had a demon in his house. Despite many different investigative groups over a period of years showing him that his demon consisted of his air compressor blowing, faulty wiring of his dishwasher, and raccoon families in his attic, he still walked away from the house and let it go into foreclosure. He had convinced himself that an evil spirit was after him, so to him, an evil spirit was after him.

The point is that you should never jump to the conclusion that your house is haunted. There are so many other things that it could be. Be especially careful when you suffer from illnesses or tragedies, because those things can impair your judgment. After all, if you have gone through horror after horror, it is easy to turn to the paranormal when looking for answers. People can mistakenly think that if doctors can’t help them or if several family and loved ones die in the same year, then maybe there is a dark entity making it happen. They look to the supernatural for answers because this world cannot provide them with the answers. Some illnesses are yet to be discovered. Doesn’t mean someone isn’t dealing with it right now. Doctors just don’t know what it is. And in some years, several people you love can just die. It is rare, but it does happen. Bad luck perhaps, but not bad spirit.

If you think you have a ghost in your house, then get it checked out. Have good investigators who will look at your heating/air system, pipes, windows, and other things to rule out something mundane. Whatever you do, don’t get scared when you don’t need to be. Life is too short.

Demon Attacks: Evil Spirits & Serial Murder (Now Available in paperback!

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The paperbacks came in today!

Warning: Disturbing accounts of serial killers and demons. What if the world’s worst predators worked together? Could evil spirits and human monsters act as one? Paranormal researcher and retired criminal profiler Dr. Deborah Kauflin looks into the frightening link between bad spirits and serial killers. Whether you love the paranormal or study serial murder, this book delves into the lives of serial murderers and their experiences with otherworldly entities.

After interviewing 25 multiple murderers for criminal profiling research, Dr. Kauflin found a disturbing link between these killers and dark paranormal activity. Based on the interviews with both killers and witnesses, she pieced together an eerie puzzle which shows that evil spirits really do interact with serial killers. Just who or what is stalking victims with these murderers?

Dr. Kauflin worked on hundreds of serial murder & sexual homicide cases for police departments. She taught thousands of homicide detectives, FBI agents, US Military, and created the profiles of female serial killers, sadistic murderers, and terrorists. Back in November 2008, Dr. Kauflin predicted that India would be the next big terror attack in her book Disturbed. Two weeks later, terrorists hit Mumbai and took 166 lives. Her most famous profile was of the BTK serial murderer, and she is known for being the first person to interview a group of female serial killers for groundbreaking criminal profiling research. Dr. Kauflin has appeared as a criminal profiling expert on ABC, CNN, FoxNews, The Discovery Channel, Investigation Discovery, and the Seoul Broadcasting System. She wrote for Psychology Today Magazine online, did volunteer work for the National Organization of Parents of Murdered Children, and has authored four other books.

“I’m not going to tell you what is hanging out with some serial murderers. You can call them thought projections, Djinn, demons, bad ghosts, parasites, aliens or other entities. However, there is something paranormal going on with certain serial killers.” Deborah Kauflin, Ph.D.

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When Sex with a Ghost Goes Bad

By Deborah Kauflin, Ph.D.

I know this title will get a few laughs. After all, who could believe that anyone could have sex with a spirit? Isn’t that stuff all made up anyway?

You may not believe it, but people DO have sex with otherworldly beings. These people actually feel the genitalia of the entities and the sensation of having sex. Many of them welcome the amorous behavior from a frisky spirit. What they don’t realize is that this is how a lot of bad hauntings begin.

In some cases, young and sometimes cocky individuals call on a ghost, thinking they will have wild sex and a good time. In other cases, lonely, hurt, and depressed people reach out for spirit sex because they feel unattractive and unloved. In either situation, those doing this truly don’t understand what they are dealing with and what could possibly happen. After all, if you are making love to something you can’t see, then you don’t even know what is touching you. It could be a lonely ghost, a curious alien, or something even more sinister. Would you really want to take the chance that your lover could be a monster?

I know some people have reported extremely pleasurable sexual experiences with spirits. I’ve spoken with those people, mostly women, who said that sex with a spirit was the best sex they ever had. There was no fear involved when it was happening, and they were not hurt. In the majority of those cases, the sex was a one- time thing. They didn’t call on the ghost. The ghost came to them. Plus, there was no negative paranormal activity afterward. It was like a one and done sort of thing.

Yes, there are cases where people claim to have long term sexual fun with a spirit that never evolves into anything sinister. These are rare situations which people are quite reluctant to talk about.

Most times, when the sex turns into a sexual relationship, problems ensue. The human and entity become lovers where sex is mutually desired. In the beginning, both spirit and human can’t get enough. The sex is described as more than amazing. As one woman said “the ghost could touch me all over and make me feel pleasure in every way, in a way a human male never could.”

So, the person becomes addicted to the sex, and the entity appears to be friendly.  The addiction part is a clue that something is wrong. The situation becomes tricky and dangerous at this point. Here you have a spirit lover who you can’t see, and you don’t know who or what it is. Since you don’t know who or what it is, then you can’t know how it will respond when you are not available or you want to move on. You don’t know what plan the entity has.

If all you have is a lonely ghost, the entity can become jealous of a spouse or others in your life. He or she can become demanding and expect sex all the time. I was told by those who experienced this that the spirit wouldn’t let them sleep. The entity wanted sex day and night and was forceful and sometimes violent when it didn’t get its way. And then rape would occur. The pleasure turned into pain. And in these cases, it becomes extremely difficult to remove the spirit because the entity is attached to and wants that particular human. Because of this, the spirit becomes loud and difficult in the home. Without sleep coupled with the sex attacks, the victims’ lives spin out of control. This is just the ghost scenario.

Now think of something even worse. When a dark spirit is involved, not only will rape take place, but the victims will suffer torture. Their lives get ruined, as in any dark haunting. Relationships are destroyed, victims are put into physical danger, and few believe them when they are brave enough to talk about what is happening.

The bad spirits use sex as bait. Knowing who is vulnerable, they wait in the darkness for some gullible individual to call them. They come across as sweet at first, fulfilling your desires. But that doesn’t last long. Just like the example above, the spirit demands attention all the time. Sleep becomes impossible, and the victim gets raped in various ways.

Moreover, victims gets punched, scratched, and weird accidents happen in their homes. Dangerous leaks occur, or things catch on fire. And these attacks and accidents happen repeatedly. The victim gets no rest. Support is driven away because who wants to be around some crazy person who has weird violent stuff happening in his/her house?

Because nothing goes right in their lives, they burn out and become a total mess. Health gets affected due to the constant state of anxiety and lack of sleep. And when help is sought, few know how to assist them.

These are the types of cases that are very hard to deal with due to the strong attachment. Though it may be difficult to understand, some victims of these attacks don’t want the spirit to leave. They are drawn and connected to the spirit even though it is ruining their lives. With that, they stand in their own way to freedom and keep the spirit with them. It may not make sense, but it is kind of like a person in an abusive relationship. They can’t let go and put up with abuse.

Those who won’t let go continue having their lives affected, and it never turns out well. But even when victims do want the spirits to go, it is not easy. When something is invited and becomes intimate, there is an additional bond which is hard to break. In these cases, victims need very specialized help. They have to want the help and want the spirit gone. Even with such help, some cases do not get resolved. It is like the spirit has claimed that person and will never let go.

Cleansings, blessings, and exorcisms have been sought out in such situations. Usually it takes more than one attempt to make progress. If you are dealing with this, seek out professional help. Get checked out by a doctor to make sure your health is all right. Have your home checked for environmental problems and look at your medications to make sure you are not simply experiencing some side effect. You ALWAYS want to get yourself examined by a doctor if you are going through something like this to make sure that something physical or emotional isn’t going on. When you rule out these things, it can help you be clear that you are dealing with the paranormal. This can aid you in getting the help that you need because most professionals in the paranormal field will want to ensure that you have been to a doctor and had an environmental check before they come out. Simply doing these things help you get back some control of your life. Always get references and investigate any professional that you call for help. Get their plan so that you know they won’t abandon you after simply documenting evidence. A good paranormal group will help you through the whole process, before and after an investigation.

If you have experienced this, then know you are not alone. Strange things happen in this world, and there is more out there than meets the eyes.

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Evil Spirits Can Kill Your Pets

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By Deborah Kauflin, Ph.D.

Are you scared that something is hurting your pets? Is your house haunted? If you answered ‘yes’ to these questions, then it is likely that you need some serious help.

Hauntings can come about in many ways. Spirits can be invited in your home, they can follow you, or they can already be there when you move in.

Usually if you are haunted, then you know it. You don’t need me to tell you. Odd things will happen around you. Objects move on their own. Out of the blue, you’ll hear pounding on the walls that makes you jump. Sometimes you catch a glimpse of an apparition floating down the hall. A whispering voice calls your name when no one is there. You find yourself having strange dreams. Sometimes a spirit will touch you.

If you are haunted, you’ll feel like someone is in your home when no one is with you. You see the strangest things when you are fully awake. Others experience it too, so you know you are not hallucinating. Weird happenings go on right in front of you, as plain as day. You know you are not crazy. Still you question if your imagination is working overtime.

The paranormal occurrences can be scary enough, but what happens when the haunting starts to impact your animals? Your pets are your heart and soul, and you love them completely. Pets are family. Your bond with them will never be broken. So when bad thing begin to happen to your pets, your heart can nearly stop.

It is easy to see when your animals are experiencing something otherworldly. Beyond your own experiences, your pets will react to something invisible in the room. Sometimes they chase after it, full force. I’ve had cases where dogs and cats will run after a phantom and smack into the wall as they try to follow. Of course they injure themselves when this happens, and people wonder if the spirit was taunting their pet to make that happen.

As time goes on, you’ll notice that your animals become stressed. They may refuse to go into certain rooms and hiss or bark at seemingly nothing. Basically they see something that you don’t. Any animal can see a spirit, but it is much more profound when a haunting is dark. The activity frazzles your pets’ nerves, and very often, the animals who are targeted will suddenly become lethargic. They won’t eat. They won’t play. It is as if they are not the same anymore. You will find yourself in and out of veterinary clinics, but the vets find nothing wrong with the animals. Your pets shouldn’t be sick, but they get worse and worse. No matter how hard you try, your beloved pet begins slipping away. It doesn’t matter which animal it is. I’ve seen cases where horses, birds, bunnies, cats, dogs, ferrets, and even reptiles die mysteriously once a bad haunting begins. The deaths can’t be explained rationally. Worse yet, there are people with demonic paranormal activity who lost one pet this way, and then shortly after, another pet died the same way (without explanation). There are no gas leaks, toxic molds, or any environmental factors which could have caused the deaths. The animals just die, one by one.

When this happens, you feel sick to your stomach because you know something supernatural is going on. But who will believe you???? Too often people with real paranormal stories are blown off or used by the media. Though our world is slowly becoming more accepting of ghostly happenings, progress is slow. That doesn’t mean that there aren’t people out there who do understand. I understand. And there are many paranormal investigators who understand too.

Please know that evil targets animals because animals are so sensitive. They make easy prey. Plus, targeting your pet is a way to hurt you. If the spirit takes away what you love, it can rip your life apart with ease. This makes it simple for an evil entity to get to you and ruin your life. Dark spirits want to break you down, physically and emotionally. Just like some rotten people, evil spirits want to watch the world burn. When the spirits are finished with your animals, then they come for you.

If you believe you are truly haunted and that your pets are in danger, then by all means, reach out to a local paranormal group. Ask questions before you bring them to your home to make sure they will follow through after an investigation to ensure your safety. Investigators can help determine what is going on in your home and point you to more resources if necessary. They can lead you step by step through the process.

A word of caution though. I’ve seen a pattern over and over. When people with dark spirit activity bring in outside help, it can make things worse……at least for a little while. You need to understand that dealing with evil is not simple. It can take a lot of time to get what you need. There have been situations where a blessing and/or cleansing was done, and activity seemed to stop. Those involved felt as if they had control over their lives again. However, it was all a lie, and the ‘peace’ didn’t last long. It was all a trick, meant to lure them into letting their guard down.

It is at this point where evil digs in, and all hell breaks loose. Paranormal activity ramps up. So you must be sure to find experienced investigators to help you. Make sure that you get the right paranormal group. Get references and check to ensure that the group has dealt with your type of haunting. Don’t be afraid to ask questions because any reputable investigators will be open and honest about their experiences. They will understand your hesitance.

While it can be scary to think that getting help can make things worse for a while, it can be crucial to involve a good paranormal investigative group. They can be a lifeline in more ways than one. They can show you that you are not crazy and that something really is going on. They can identify what you are dealing with and steer you in the right direction to find resolution. A good group will know what to do if activity increases after their investigation. They will be able to guide you to whatever resources you may need and follow up with you.

The key is not to give up. If you are dealing with a negative haunting, remember that you are not alone. Many people will understand and do their best to help you. Learn all you can about spirit matters and have faith that it will be resolved. A positive belief can truly help you.

You may also consider that these things could be projected from the mind, i.e. poltergeist. Even if that is the case, you still have a bad energy that is harmful in your home. That energy is destructive and can truly injure humans and animals.

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