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Alien abductees change stories

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

When you look at what happens when people are taken by aliens, you find patterns. People who have been snatched by ET’s will often at first say the experience was terrifying. They can’t eat. They can’t sleep. Their lives are turned upside down. Yet much later, they will change their story and say the extraterrestrials meant no harm. They even can become fiercely defensive about the aliens. The questions is: how does a person go from suffering from PTSD to being fine with alien abduction?

There are many examples of this abductee mindset change, but let me give you a simple example. There are women who have been abducted and then became pregnant. They have fuzzy memories of entities doing something in their vaginal areas. A pregnancy occurs. Then, the fetus suddenly disappears after another abduction. At first the abductee is mortified. They feel violated and traumatized. But after time and the prodding of a regression therapist, they change their opinion. They go from saying they were taken, impregnated, and had a child stolen, to ‘no problem.’ It is like a shrug of the shoulders. When pressed about the subject, abductees will say that the aliens have their child, so it’s no big deal. There must be some good reason for what the entities did.

Whoa! That is a big change.

How did they go from being terrified to not caring at all? The key I’ve found is that a regression therapist or someone with different views intervenes. ET enthusiasts will point out that the abductee wasn’t hurt THAT much. After all, the extraterrestrials could have killed the abductees, but they didn’t. So, aren’t they good guys after all?

There’s so much wrong with this thinking that I don’t know where to begin. The best example I can give is this. What if you were abducted by a human predator, impregnated, and then taken again and the fetus forcibly removed from you? Would you say ‘well, he could’ve killed me, so he’s not all that bad!” Come on. We all know the answer to that. Yet in cases of alien abduction, abductees will excuse heinous behavior of otherworldly entities. The truth is that they do so because they cannot cope with the reality of the situation.  After all, when you think about the horrors of these cases, the fear can be overwhelming.  Who wouldn’t want to change the story? Who wouldn’t want things to be different?

As to the regression therapists, I see a problem with the power of suggestion during the sessions. Over the course of the regression, the therapist will often ask if the abductee gave secret permission at some previous time to be abducted. Now, of course, this is a loaded question and should never be used. Yet it is, and it is a clear suggestion which totally changes the course of the therapy. It puts a seed in the mind of the abductee.

The reason this is so concerning is that the abductee has a strong motivation to grab on to that excuse and hold on to it. It gives the abductee an ‘out.’ They can believe they weren’t taken and assaulted. They can think they agreed to it. It allows them to turn from a victim to a non-victim. It gives abductees a sense of control when there is none. But is it really true?

Let’s face it, if ET’s are taking you, you have no say in when, where, and how it happens. They do what they want, when they want, and how they want. There is no control here, only the illusion of control. Abductees believing they gave permission changes all of this. I completely understand why an abductee would seize onto this line of thinking. It is a psychological protective mechanism. It can allow someone to live a normal life when living day to day may have been difficult to almost impossible.

Abduction is abduction. Experiments are experiments. Unless you have given conscious permission, it is not all right. Still, some abductees have become strangely protective of the ET’s. They don’t seem to recognize that they are actively engaged in Stockholm Syndrome which is a coping mechanism for people who have been abducted. As time goes by, the abductee can feel positive emotions toward a captor. It allows the brain not to be in a constant state of anxiety. It lets the victim to feel a sense of control. This changes a horrible situation into something tolerable or even pleasant.

So, frequently you will see abductees change their stories from horror to love. There is a lot that goes into this change, and I am not sure the victims fully understand it. This is not their fault. They were thrust into a bad situation against their will, and they are making the best of it. If this thinking allows them to live a good life, then it is necessary. I am glad they have this relief.

Yet my point is, you cannot paint toxic waste and say it is beautiful. There are plenty of people who were taken and are distraught over their abductions. Their lives are in ruins. Their marriages suffer. Jobs are lost. Health is destroyed. There is no putting a positive spin on it for them.  Is the only difference in abductees the mentality and belief afterward?

There is another factor that could be at work here, and it is disturbing. Since ET’s can impact our neurological systems and memories, who is to say that they are not simply wiping the minds of certain abductees and putting positive emotions in place? It is something that could explain how an abductee could go from being horrified at what happened to shrugging their shoulders. It is such an extreme change that it warrants further investigation. Please see the work or Dr. David Jacobs and Derrel Sims.

I am not saying that some people do not have positive experiences with ET’s. I know people who psychically reach out and have relationships with extraterrestrials. They share information and friendship. Those cases are totally different. They are not what I am referring to in this article. I am talking about nonconsensual abductions. We have so many questions, and really, the more I learn, the more I feel that I don’t know.

I do wonder if this lack of disclosure is done on purpose to cause confusion. I keep going back to this in my research. Secrecy breeds confusion. Confusion leads to anxiety. Anxiety keeps people upset. It is hard to make good decisions and progress when constantly being spun around. As we stand now, we know very little about ET’s. It seems as if they want it that way, and that has to make you question what is really going on.

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Alien Healing

Copyright Deborah Schurman-Kauflin, Ph.D.

I have written extensively about my belief that alien contact is not benevolent. There are countless tales of ET abductions where victims suffer horrific consequences from being taken. 

While I do believe that much alien contact is bad for the victims, there are cases in which the contactees experienced healings. Such cases are much more rare than those where the victims are hurt. 

Since we do not know everything about ET’s, it is hard to say exactly what they are and which ones are here. For that reason there is a possibility that there are some who are benevolent.

Here are a few examples of the contactees I have interviewed who had wonderful things happen as a result of being taken. 

One experiencer named Michelle reported having her hearing restored in a compromised ear. This 52 year old female suffered from Ménière’s disease and had lost hearing in one of her ears. She had suffered for several years with this condition. Doctors offered this woman little help and in fact were outright dismissive of her suffering. When the medicinal profession had written her off, she had resigned herself to living this way for the rest of her life. 

She had reported ET abductions since she was a child. Both she and her brother      remembered the ‘dreams’ they both had as little children. Each remember walking to the window at night and then being pulled through it. It always terrified them when they were little.  Yet when she was taken as a an adult, she found the experiences much more appealing. The last time she was taken, the ET’s had her on a hard table and kept putting their eyes very close to her bad ear. This happened over and over.  Michelle did not feel anything when this happened.When she awoke the next day, she could hear perfectly out of her bad ear and has never had a problem since.

Another contactee, an African American man named Ben had suffered from a blood disorder  his entire life. He was in his 60’s when he reported being taken by aliens. No one else in his family ever experienced such an incident. However, his wife had seen a light shine through their window the night of his abduction. Unlike Michelle, he at first was scared when he awoke on a table, like one in a doctor’s examination room. Ben struggled as much as he could which was not much at all. He couldn’t move. Pretty much all he could move were his eyes. He could see a large silver needle which one put in his groin. He wanted to scream but could not. Why would they put it in his groin? That was all he remembered. 

However, the next day after waking up, he felt noticeably better than he had in years. As the days progressed, he got better and better. His joints no longer hurt. His eyes were better. He no longer had heart palpitations. It was so strange that he made an appointment with his doctor who was confused as to why Ben was there. People don’t usually go to the doctor when they are feeling better. Ben explained that something was very different and he wanted blood tests to see what was going on. A panel was done, and his blood work was fantastic. His cholesterol was low, which it had not been in years. And better yet, his blood disorder was no longer detectable. His doctor could not explain it. The tests were repeated in a month and were the same. No blood disorder.

Both Ben and Michelle described the typical Grey type of alien with big black eyes off at an angle. They both remembered the hairs on their arms standing up when the creatures got close to them. However neither has an exact recollection of specifically entering an exam room. They both got a headache when the entities were near them. Neither had any idea why they were chosen and taken.

So the question becomes: are different ET’s abducting people? Is one set healing and others hurting? Or is it the same group doing some good things while hurting the majority? 

There are no clear answers. The problem is that the ET’s are not talking. Messages come via abductees, and many of the messages come through regression therapy. Certainly an advanced creature would have a better way to communicate. So why don’t they? It leaves us to speculate that they do not communicate because they do not want to. It creates more questions than answers. And that is a problem.

For now what we do know is that some lucky people have positive after effects from abduction. These effects appear to be permanent, and the people’s lives improve. No one knows how the ET’s do it or why.

If you have had one of these experiences, please let me know. I am always interested in learning aspects of as many cases as possible. The more we see, the more we can learn. I believe when it is accepted that these beings are here it will change humanity forever.

ET Abduction and Blue Gel Substance

Copyright Deborah Schurman-Kauflin, PhD.

There is a common factor in many alien abduction cases. It is the blue gel like substance. I have interviewed over 130 ET abductees in depth. These are credible individuals whose jobs ranged from mail carriers, truck drivers, warehouse workers, prosecutors, judges, and even celebrities. All had been evaluated by doctors to ensure mental fitness. There were no signs of deception, and I can tell you these people truly believe that they were taken by entities. I believe them as well.

During these instances, abductees encountered all kinds of strange things.  These people remembered a blue gel like substance. The substance was described as being light blue in color, almost glowing. Very bright. It was something they were not supposed to touch. The interesting thing is that people described it as performing different functions in the alien craft.

  1. It acted like a TV screen
  2. It seemed to be used to hold bodies in suspended animation
  3. It was used as a form of energy
  4. It seemed to have a life of its own

For those who said it was used like a TV screen, it was there for a the purpose of showing them things. Abductees stated that they looked into a screen which had the substance in it. They could then view the past, current, and what they were told were other dimensions. This was communicated to them telepathically.

Others were terrified when they saw human beings or other creatures in tubes which had this gel like substance in the tube from top to bottom. Was it a preservative? I do not know. I had many people independently discuss seeing this during their abductions. It horrified them. In some cases the bodies seemed like shells with no life. Others moved and eyes blinked.

A large number of abductees discussed the ET’s showing them that this substance propelled the craft and was itself a form of energy. It was not explained to the people how it worked. But they were repeatedly warned not to touch it. Those who did suffered severe health problems afterward.

Finally, and to me very interesting, abductees described this blue gel like substance moving and forming things on its own. For example, more than one person did touch the gel. It moved from their hands and flew up in the air, then formed different shapes. It defied gravity. Then it went back to where it was originally. Was it alive? Did the aliens move it with their minds?

I have heard about this blue substance from enough people to believe it is real. What it is, I do not know. I am learning right along with the rest of you. I continually do research and am interviewing more abductees as I write this. If you have any knowledge about this or have an ET case, please contact me. Like you, I want the truth. I want to learn about what is out there and share this with everyone. 

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