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ET’s wear masks

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

What does an extraterrestrial look like? Are they the Greys we have heard so much about? Maybe they are the Reptilians who are the bad boys of the galaxy. Perhaps they are mere energy balls which float in the air in front of our very eyes, much like Glinda the good witch in the Wizard of Oz. The list of various ET sightings goes on and on. They could be the tall whites. But what do these things truly look like?

It is harder to answer than you might think. These creatures are very secretive for reasons they do not share. They go so far as to sometimes give false information to alien contactees. And to make matters worse, it seems that they can look any way they like to us. It may be that they can manifest in any form because they can control what we see or perceive.

Because of this, these things essentially wear masks. Since they can manipulate our neurological systems, they can make us see what they want us to see. So, what you think you see, you may not be seeing. These reports of Grey creatures may be just that: reports. The ET’s may not look like that at all. Same for the ‘other’ aliens. They might not be ‘other’ at all. It could be the same group messing with us.

It gets stranger. There are reports of alien abductees seeing an actual mask on the entities. Whether for protection from our atmosphere or us, enough people have brought this up to take it seriously. They even go as far as to wear fake eyes. Some describe it as being like sunglasses without the rims. Maybe it is for eye protection. For instance, the big black eyes the Grey aliens are famous for may not be their eyes at all. The point is, they wear fake faces. These things do not want us knowing who they really are and what they are up to.

I and other psychics have tried to remote view them. I have been flat out told that they do wear masks. This comes from many different remote viewers and psychics. Whether this is literal or figuratively, I do not know. It could be both. This, of course, is infuriating if you are trying to get to the truth.

Try to talk to an ET. Give it a shot. You will see that they are rarely straight forward. Sometimes they will communicate with us, but it is very hard to get information out of them. It is like pulling teeth. However, I was given a prediction by them about a very important event in my life which did come true. This is not the norm though. They are remarkably secretive as to their goals. For their own reasons, they do not want us to know the truth. No matter how you paint it, that is a problem for us.

I think as we learn more about this phenomenon, we will find out that it is totally different than we expect. So many lies have been told by the entities themselves and by humans with agendas. Ask yourself: who wears masks to hide who they are? For a long time, information has been kept from us.  This has hurt us as a species. It is like we are being kept in a dark age on purpose. We are being lied to from all sides. The sad part is that humanity suffers in the meantime. We are beyond due the truth, but who can we believe? I would trust your average third grader more than most people who are charged with doling out information about ET’s and UFO’s. It is past time for the ET’s to take their masks off.

Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

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Do we really have free will?

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Free will may be an illusion. Oh, we think we are in charge of everything in our lives. We make choices. Some we regret, and others we love. As we go through life, we make tons of decisions every day. All of us share the belief that we make our own paths. What if that isn’t true? What if you learned that the future is predestined, no matter what you do?

It may seem ridiculous, but please hear me out. Psychics have the ability to see the future. I’ve done it. I know others who have done it. You may have seen the future when you have a flash in your mind or a prophetic dream. Have you ever dreamt of something only to later have it come true? This isn’t unusual. Many people get glimpses of the future. A lot of times it happens when you least expect it. Some people even predict the timing of their own deaths or simply know they will die young. And that is exactly what happens.

I know of psychic circles where people get together and attempt to make predictions about the future. Some of us psychics will do this just when we are hanging out as friends. The results can be amazing. There are cases where the predictions are eerily accurate.

To give a basic example, I did a reading for a friend and told her she was going to win some money within two weeks. I said it was not huge lottery jackpot money, but it would be a few thousand dollars which would help her. What she hadn’t told me was that she was planning a trip to a casino that weekend which was in two days. When she returned, she contacted me because she had won $3000.00. I have psychic friends who have predicted when a body would be found in a homicide case. These predictions came true as well. People have predicted plane crashes and other tragedies. I’ve predicted specific terror attacks and the when/where/who would be involved.

We see these things before they happen, or is it truly BEFORE? If we can see the future, does that mean it is written in stone? When we preview what is to come, are we influencing it? How can we see it if it has not already been written?

You can argue that if we see what is going to happen, then it is predestined. If it is not predetermined, how can we see it? When psychics or anybody sees the future and it unfolds as predicted, it appears as if choices don’t matter. This leads to a lot of questions. How in control are we in our lives? If life is predetermined, who predetermines it? Do we have a simple illusion of free will?

If time occurs all at once, does that mean time is folded on itself (past, present, future) and maybe a psychic can see different times which occur simultaneously? Still in order to view another time, it has to have happened. You would have nothing to examine otherwise. You cannot see what isn’t there.

Are we viewing the future in another dimension where it has already occurred? Again, to read it, it has to be written. One could say it was only a potential future that psychics see, but when that future happens, it is no longer a potential. It took place. So when you psychically view it, you have viewed something already written. You can argue that it was only a potential future which was brought about by personal choices. Yet, in order to see it, you have to have something to see. You saw something that was already there. Somehow, it was already there to view. This topic can spin you around in circles.

Dr. Barry Taff did a lot of research on this and said we may not like the answers once we discover what is really happening. When we unravel all these mysteries of the paranormal, we may not be fond of the truth. We may be less in control than we think. In fact, we may have no control at all. It could all be an illusion of free will.

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Grey ET’s sell knowledge

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Greys are highly intelligent extraterrestrials. They are cunning, thoughtful, planners who know how to look at a situation and see all sides. In fact, the Greys never put all of their eggs in one basket, so to speak. They investigate every species and learn what makes them tick. Greys are master manipulators who look out for their own best interest. Because of that, expect that they will always be working every angle to preserve themselves.

Psychics complain that the Greys are stingy with information. Unlike some other entities, the Greys often remain silent when asked questions. I can tell you from my own psychic work that Greys hate giving their thoughts away. Instead, they sell knowledge. They do so because they understand that knowledge is valuable.

If you understand the thoughts of any entity, you can figure out its weakness. Yet I do not think the Greys are concerned about this. They are so far advanced from us that we do not have the psychic ability, psychokinetic skills, or technology to harm them. Still, they remain mostly quiet about themselves as a strategic move. Some say they share so little because they do not want to interfere with our evolution. However, by abducting humans, they are more than interfering. You cannot say that they are taking a hands off position. It is just the opposite. So that excuse is bogus. From doing psychic work and talking to people in government, it is cleat that if you want information from the Greys, you must give them something.

This demonstrates that these creatures are not dumb. They play a long game and know how to manipulate all sides. If you are dealing with Greys, then understand that they are also dealing with someone else. In other words, they are not on your side exclusively. If it benefits them, then they will be on your side for a short time. When others are more beneficial to them, they will be on their side. They do not view this as being deceptive. It is practical, nothing more.

It is said that they have a hive mind. Greys share thoughts with each other. They do it instantly and effortlessly. If you are interacting with a Grey, this ET is gathering information from you to share with the others. The word share comes up a lot with these creatures. This is a key aspect of their culture for themselves.

They are also very protective when they want to be. The Greys will fiercely defend something if it is important to them. Even other very powerful ET’s will not intentionally provoke the Greys. When it comes down to it, remember that Greys are very self-interested. If they are protecting something, it is because it has value to them.

If you speak to anyone who knows something about the Greys, that person will tell you that they do not share information outside of their species without some benefit to themselves. They are clever and secretive. Though they have a hive mind, there is some individualistic nature to them. It is like the individuals act like detectors to gather information, much like our senses do for us.

They will take all information they can get but are very stingy and give little in return. Though some abductees do seem to get gifts from these ET’s, we do not know the motivation for this. It could be a simple experiment to see how humans use those gifts. On the other hand, it could be another type of Grey who gives gifts. Notice that very, very few abductees get gifts. Too many have their lives ruined by contact. Since it is so difficult to get information from these creatures, we are left to speculate as to their motivations. As a retired criminal profiler, I always look at behavior. Behavior reflects personality. And the behavior of the Greys is concerning. There are too many questions left unanswered, and information mainly goes one way.

What we do know is that any information that came from a Grey had a price. Those in the know will say that these things have an agenda. What that agenda is, we do not know. All we can say for sure is that so much secrecy surrounds ET’s. They leave breadcrumbs for us to follow, but too often, the trail grows cold and leaves us with even more questions.

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Are you mysteriously drawn to someone?

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Have you ever met someone and felt like you already knew that person? Is there an individual who intrigues you, though there is no apparent reason for it? Does someone just stick in your mind? It is like there is some kind of magic pulling you to this person. You probably don’t even understand why.

This is very common. You are not the only person who has gone through this. What you might not know is that there is a paranormal element to this. Everyone is psychic to some extent. Some people are better at it than others due to natural innate ability. But every person reading this has psychic skills. You may not even be aware of it. Trust me. You do.

How is this relevant to being drawn to someone for some strange reason?

We are all interconnected through consciousness, so you can pick up when someone has a similar vibration to you. You may be drawn to someone because your consciousness is somehow already interacting with that person on another level. Our psychic minds are always scanning our environment for data and giving us feedback. If you are mysteriously drawn to someone, you may psychically be interacting already. You may be picking up on that person’s energy field.

The person may be a teacher for you. Maybe there is a lesson you need to learn, and this person can teach you this lesson. Our souls are always searching for growth, so we seek out what helps us move forward. Think of the times you met someone and knew this person would be instrumental in your life. You just knew. Then as time goes by, you find out you were right.

Sometimes you need healing, and a particular person is good for your soul. You sense this and are drawn to the person. Your soul is in need and searching for ways to heal. So, we can seek out those with the ability to mend us. You may recognize something about that person that you admire or have in yourself. The vibration is similar.

There is a possibility you knew each other in a past life. You could be old friends from another time. Then when you see your old pal in this life, your spirit recognizes it immediately. There is an instant comfort and compatibility. This happens quite a bit as we make our way through life.

You could be astral traveling at night while asleep and interacting with the consciousness of another person. If you are seeking something, and most people are, then you do this naturally as you sleep. Your psychic self actually goes somewhere else as you get some shut eye. Sometimes your dreams are more than dreams. Sometimes they are real. Your spirit explores while you sleep. These are not dreams but travels. They seem different from normal dreams and very vivid. You will remember them. When you astral travel in your sleep, you are searching for what you need.

When you use your psychic ability, you are connecting with something that is outside of yourself. Consciousness is limitless yet connected. You can do more with your mind than you know. There are many paranormal reasons that you are strangely drawn to a person. When you find yourself feeling pulled to someone for no reason, your mind is telling you that you are searching for something missing in your life. You want and need to grow. When you psychically connect with another who has a similar vibration to you, it helps restore you. It can even be healing. Your mind craves connection and learning. Behind the scenes, your psychic self is venturing out to help you get what you need. As you get older, you mind does this even more. The more you learn, the more you want to know. You will always be seeking out those with like vibration, teachers, old friends, and healers. So don’t worry if you find yourself in this position. Your psychic self is just doing what it naturally does: reaching out for connections.

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UFO contact & energy blast

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When examining people who came into contact with UFO’s, there are lots of commonalities. Though such people may not remember any abduction experience, they do remember circumstances of the contact.

The typical situation goes like this. It is most common for contactees to see a bright light in the evening or at night. They suffer from missing time during which they do not have any memory. And there are physical manifestations, evidence that something happened.

In this article I am focusing on those who see a UFO or a bright light in the sky at dusk or at night. These specific cases occurred when a person is alone or in a small group. Furthermore, this person or small group is isolated or in a remote area.

An unusual event will happen which captures the attention of the contactee. There is something amiss. When looking around, there are things out of place or out of the norm. Invariably there is a light involved. Usually, it is a bright light. Mostly it is in the sky. However, it can be indoors.

More often than not, the contactee will see something wrong and go to investigate. It is like the person feels compelled to look into what is happening. These people do not give much thought to walking toward something strange. It doesn’t occur to them that it could be dangerous.

As they evaluate their surroundings, a light will appear which is extremely bright. It is most described as blinding. It is here that contactee experiences differ. However, the cases all appear to involve some blast of energy.

Whereas some experience the blast of energy before their minds go blank, others will experience some kind of amnesia and then recall the energy blast occurring later. Contactees describe the energy blast as being extremely intense. Most say it hurt and burned. For several, it knocked them off of their feet.

The contactees did not know what the energy blast was, but many said they thought it was some kind of weapon. All of the contactees I interviewed were hurt by this blast. They suffered some injury as a result.

The most common results of the blasts were:

  1. Burns
  2. Internal injuries
  3. Concussions
  4. Neurological problems
  5. Nose bleeds
  6. Ear bleeds
  7. Eye injury

In other words, these things hurt people. To this day we do not know what the energy blast comes from. It could be some kind of radiation as contactees suffer radiation or radiation-type burns. The scary part is that it is not a one time thing. Contactees suffer from these effects for years after the event. The exposure, whatever it is, causes lingering effects.

The fact that these people had no fear approaching a scary situation is significant. It was like they were compelled to go toward something. Was it simple curiosity or something else? Were they lured? While we do not have the answers, we do see so many similarities worldwide. What is the energy blast? Who is behind it? Open the door to this phenomena, and you open Pandora’s box. There is more than meet’s the eye here.

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Alien abductees feel dirty after contact

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Et abductions can leave you with nasty scars. They can cause abductees to go insane. Abductions can ruin people’s lives costing them their jobs, relationships, and children.

Hearing this, it is no wonder abductees feel dirty after their experiences. It is very common for those who are taken to want to throw away their clothes or bedding once they realize what has happened. They take multiple showers and examine any scars and injuries over and over. If they do keep the clothes they wore during abduction, they will run them through the washer multiple times. It is the very rare abductee who keeps clothing from the experience. More of them want to erase any trace of the experience.

Why?

Abductees cannot believe what occurred. Not only were they taken, but they were taken by something not of this world. Think about that for a moment.

At first, those who were taken may feel like fools for even believing in such nonsense. After all……aliens? Who is going to believe them? Everyone will think they are nuts. For the record, it is not uncommon for abductees to think they are losing their minds. The totality of the experience can be too much for the human mind to process. It is so far-fetched that some abductees have breakdowns.

However, when there is physical evidence tied to the event, it becomes hard to dismiss. The scars that appear overnight are hard to ignore. Weird rashes suddenly occur. Radiation burns appear. No matter what you think, you cannot dismiss radiation burns. SOMETHING happened to these victims. You can argue whether the abductors come from outer space, but you cannot say that nothing happened.

So, there is physical evidence in these cases. There have been reports of a sticky substance left on the skin of abductees. The substance is only seen under fluorescent lighting. Again, those taken by ET’s want to get rid of this. They wash and wash over again in an attempt to forget what happened, even when their conscious minds do not recall right away.

For those out there who think this is comical, you do not know everything. As ET researcher Mary Rodwell says “we don’t know what we don’t know.” Sounds simple, yet it is true. We don’t know what is out there. And we certainly don’t know what we don’t know. However there have been enough of these cases with physical evidence to raise an eyebrow.

The thing is that those who are taken by what appear to be ET’s suffer bad effects. While some claim healings occurred afterward, the greater number have lots of problems stemming from the experience. There is no happily ever after for them. They live in torment as any victim would. What is worse here is that no one believes them.  That is why they want to forget. Yet they can’t forget. It isn’t fair to them, and they live out their lives suffering in silence.

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The E.T. Stare: How Aliens control people with their eyes

By Deborah Kauflin, Ph.D.

Do you believe in aliens? How hard is it to think that another species has visited our planet? The possibilities are endless if you think about it. Many say that they have had some type of contact with extraterrestrials. The reported contacts involve everything from the dreaded abductions to quite pleasant, loving experiences. Everyone from farmers in the fields to judges out for a Sunday drive have reported the phenomenon. And stories come in from around the planet.

Of course we have to consider all explanations when listening to these accounts. Are those who claim to go through these experiences simply lying, or are they mentally ill? Is this nothing more than a case of mistaken identity, where people have night terrors and nightmares which they wrongly believe actually happened to them? Maybe it is a hallucination produced by physical illness, medication side effects, or massive stress. There is also research which shows that weak EMF fields can cause people to hallucinate (Persinger, 2016). Perhaps these experiencers had been exposed to weak EMF fields which acted on their brains. Those are certainly plausible explanations which should always be considered when someone comes forth with such tales.

But what if is something else? What if entities are visiting us and making contact? It is a worthy topic to study, no matter what the naysayers claim. If aliens are here, then we must investigate. We have a duty to look into topic. After all, who wants to be in the dark about creatures from other worlds, creatures who are watching and perhaps intervening in our lives? Putting our heads in the sand won’t make them go away.

Those who have come forward with accounts of alien abductions have been laughed at and even ruined professionally and financially. The cynics drip with hate as they attack witnesses for simply telling their stories. However science involves investigation and questioning. If people make up their minds before even glancing at a subject, progress will never be made. After all, how can you learn if your mind is closed?

We owe it to contactees to listen because if even a bit of their stories is real, then we would be putting ourselves in peril by ignoring them. By listening and investigating, we can learn not only about the human psyche, but potentially open up whole new worlds.

Let’s face it, if aliens are here, they have abilities that are way beyond our own. This by itself is scary. Yet they aren’t killing all of us. We aren’t slaves to some reptilian E.T. overlords. If they had the means to kill us and wanted to do so, then we would be dead. So either they aren’t here, they don’t have the resources to kill us, or they don’t want to. That doesn’t mean that they do not do present a threat to us. There are plenty of stories involving violent abductions which resemble something out of a horror movie. Yet, overall, we haven’t been overrun by little grey men with ray guns.

I can tell you that the alien contact stories I hear are very similar, whether abductees come from Australia, Africa, The Netherlands, or the U.S.A. There is definitely a pattern to how these cases unfold. Abductees tell tales of seeing lights in the sky or in their homes (red or blue). After seeing the lights or a ball of light, creatures appear. The descriptions vary from greys, reptilians, little furry creatures, tall whitish humanoids, blue eyed beings, Asian looking entities, balls of light, and more. *As a side note, based on the people I have talked to, if these things are real, I believe that E.T.’s can make you see what they want you to see.

And here is where the mind to mind contact comes in. From what abductees have told me and other researchers have found, there is a great deal of telepathy and mind connection. That is, experiencers will just know what the E.T.’s are communicating without ‘hearing’ it. Then there is the alien stare. A lot of abductees speak of having a strange looking creature stare into their eyes to get information as well as to control the abductees. They recall being incapacitated by the alien staring into their eyes. Further, the stare seems to act like a knock out drug. When abductees resist, an entity inevitably comes close and locks eyes with the human. This produces immobility and then grogginess, if not sleep.

As I’ve written before, it may be that extraterrestrials know how to activate the pineal gland to produce melatonin and thus sleep. Clearly, they seem to be able to effect the human nervous system and have perfected a way to knock us out without landing a punch.

Along the same vein, abductees report having an alien stare into their eyes and absorbing information. People often refer to it as a mind scan. It like they can look into our minds through our eyes and see whatever we have seen. Wouldn’t that be an interesting skill to have?

Though this part is even harder to believe, some abductees report sexual behavior or touch during their abduction experiences. Aliens appear to be interested in human sexuality and reproduction. For that reason, abductees tell stories of E.T.’s touching them in a sexual manner in order to produce orgasm and/or collect sperm. When orgasm is reached, aliens will often rush over to stare into the human’s eyes. Does that suggest that E.T.’s ‘feel’ human emotions or body sensation when they gaze into people’s eyes? Do they stare into the eyes during a period of great pleasure in order to capture that pleasure for themselves or to somehow study the neurological process going on in the brain at that moment?

The very well- known and respected Derrel Sims has been studying aliens for decades, and he has come to the conclusion that E.T.’s see in infrared, ultra violet, and x-ray type vision. So when they stare in the eyes, they actually could be doing an x-ray on your brain!

I know all this sounds way too weird to believe. I totally understand that. Yet you have to remember that these stories come from around the world and often from multiple witnesses at once. While I certainly cannot rule out EMF and geomagnetic factors acting on the brain to produce hallucinations, I also cannot rule out the possibility that aliens have been here. The similarity of the abduction stories warrants our attention, whether you believe in extraterrestrials or not. Something is going on. Perhaps someday we will be able to put the puzzle together so we can understand more about ourselves as well as the E.T.’s who may very well be here.

If you have had an experience like this or it rings a bell, feel free to contact me. Your story can really help in researching this grand subject.   Email: deborahkauflin       @  gmail.com

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References:

Derrel Sims http://www.alienhunter.org/

Dr. Michael Persinger (2016) https://neurocogconsultants.app.box.com/s/l9f7tld3yjny4b00eqbq

Dr. Barry Taff (2011). Aliens Above, Ghosts Below: Explorations of the Unknown.

Mary Rodwell (2010). Awakening.

Stanton Friedman and Kathleen Marden (2007). Captured! The Betty and Barney Hill UFO Experience: The True Story of the World’s First Documented Alien Abduction.

 

 

When ghosts are nothing more than your own trauma

By Deborah Kauflin, Ph.D.

Many people believe their homes are haunted. In fact, they are downright convinced of it. Yet in a lot of cases, the ‘ghost’ is nothing more than a mixture of family trauma and negative life situations. What I mean by that is a large number of cases where homeowners believed they were haunted were actually not haunted at all. Well, they may have been haunted by a horrible life tragedy, but there was nothing paranormal going on.

You have to be careful if you think that you are being haunted. Because if you come to believe that there is a specter watching your every move, then you can become anxious, paranoid, and even frightened. I’ve worked with people who thought that they had ghosts in their homes. In reality, there was no ghost or demon. The things that they mistook for supernatural happenings were actually just everyday occurrences that were misinterpreted.

Life is hard. For some people, it is excruciating. Whether they go through a chronic painful illness which doctors seem unable to help, or they suffer from tragedy after tragedy, the trauma can be too much to handle. When this happens, the human mind searches for an explanation. Sometimes that leads them to the paranormal.

For example, Minnie was left by her cheating husband with four young children. Naturally the cheater skipped out of town and on alimony too. Minnie was overwhelmed. Then life hit her with a brick. She came down with all kinds of weird symptoms. Her eyes would go in and out of focus. She’d feel numb in her legs and arms. Sometimes, she had trouble walking. To the doctors she went, and the doctors failed her. They saw her as a middle aged woman who was malingering. In truth, she was suffering from early Multiple Sclerosis. It took several years before she found one competent doctor who was able to diagnose her.

In the meantime, Minnie had convinced herself that a bad spirit was haunting her home. The walls seemed to bang out of nowhere. Her wallet was never in the last place she left it. There was a cold spot in the dining room. Then there were those horrible dreams where something was chasing her. Because she was so stressed, every time one of these things would happen, she told her young children that an evil spirit was after them. It follows that the kids then began noticing every noise and bump, and they too, became convinced that a dark entity was stalking them.

When dinner was left in the stove too long, it was obviously the ghost. When Minnie tripped over the bathroom carpet, clearly it was the ghost. When the kids had nightmares, to them, it was a demon out to get them. Whatever goes wrong in the course of a normal day was attributed to the paranormal. And it made this family wild with fear.

They all ended up sleeping in the same room, taking turns trying to get rest so the ghost wouldn’t get them. The kids would go to school exhausted because, well, the demon had kept them up. At least in their mind it had. Their school work began to suffer, and Minnie simply collapsed. As sick as she was, she couldn’t go on and was absolutely convinced that the evil spirit had caused her divorce, her illness, and kids’ problems. Minnie’s behavior got bizarre as a result. She went so far as to run out of the bathroom with the trash when she was having her menstrual cycle. The reason? She felt if any blood was left in the house that it somehow ‘fed’ the demon. Minnie ended up having a priest come bless her home, she was so scared.

After this went on for almost a year, Minnie’s mother ended up taking the children and Minnie in. At first, every time they heard a snapping noise or bump, they would all jump with fear until Minnie’s mother reassured them that it was just the wind outside, the ice tray, or the refrigerator. It took several months of Minnie’s mother making great efforts to explain things and clam them down before they began to understand that they had not been haunted at all.

Still terrified of the whole thing, Minnie wanted her home (which had sat vacant for three months) to be tested by paranormal investigators. She wouldn’t believe her mom, but she would believe them. Investigators took a look at Minnie’s house and did several overnight stays. It didn’t take long to figure out that the bumps and bangs that the family had heard were the results of the pipes and the heating ducts moving and banging. The cold spot in the dining room? The window had been left open a tiny bit by accident. So chilly air was coming in at that spot. Minnie kept tripping on the bathroom carpet because one of the tiles underneath it had come loose. Where the tile was loose was the exact spot Minnie kept tripping on. And the nightmares were just that: nightmares. No more. No less.

Poor Minnie and her children had been so scared that they let fear override their common sense. If Minnie had investigated instead of jumping to conclusions, she and her children would not have lost a year to an unfounded terror. However, she had been horribly scarred from her divorce and disabling illness. It was too much.

After the investigation showed her that there was nothing in her home, she and the kids moved back in. With the window closed and tile fixed, there were no more cold spots or tripping accidents. The paranormal investigators had told her to have a plumber secure the pipes, which she did. Then the noises were no longer heard. Problems solved. Her son admitted to being the one who had been moving her wallet when he was sneaking dollars here and there. It was just one big mess.

Now don’t make the mistake of thinking that it is just females who have this issue. Unfortunately, there have been some scientists in the paranormal field who have painted women who have supernatural experiences as nutcases, and these scientists have done a great disservice to the field by using a broad brush. To these scientists, women who have paranormal experiences, especially poltergeist experiences, are hysterical personalities and attention seeking. While this may be true of some people (male and female) who are encountering paranormal happenings, it is certainly not true of all. This ghastly mischaracterization sets the field back. I’ve known women who have experienced actual poltergeist activity, witnessed by others, and these women are solid emotionally.

Both men and women can mistakenly come to believe that there is a ghost in their homes when nothing is there. I know of a man who became convinced that he had a demon in his house. Despite many different investigative groups over a period of years showing him that his demon consisted of his air compressor blowing, faulty wiring of his dishwasher, and raccoon families in his attic, he still walked away from the house and let it go into foreclosure. He had convinced himself that an evil spirit was after him, so to him, an evil spirit was after him.

The point is that you should never jump to the conclusion that your house is haunted. There are so many other things that it could be. Be especially careful when you suffer from illnesses or tragedies, because those things can impair your judgment. After all, if you have gone through horror after horror, it is easy to turn to the paranormal when looking for answers. People can mistakenly think that if doctors can’t help them or if several family and loved ones die in the same year, then maybe there is a dark entity making it happen. They look to the supernatural for answers because this world cannot provide them with the answers. Some illnesses are yet to be discovered. Doesn’t mean someone isn’t dealing with it right now. Doctors just don’t know what it is. And in some years, several people you love can just die. It is rare, but it does happen. Bad luck perhaps, but not bad spirit.

If you think you have a ghost in your house, then get it checked out. Have good investigators who will look at your heating/air system, pipes, windows, and other things to rule out something mundane. Whatever you do, don’t get scared when you don’t need to be. Life is too short.

Are Ghosts Interacting with your Pets?

By Deborah Kauflin, Ph.D.

We all love our pets. They are our little furry ‘children.’ When you have a bad day, they always come to you to put a smile on your face. Often when you are sick, they won’t leave your side. Somehow they know what you need.

The fact is that animals are naturally quite psychic. They can pick up on your moods, and they watch you to see what you need. These little psychics are attuned to the unseen world around us, and if you have a spirit in your home, your pet will probably be the first one to notice. They can see things that we can’t, and they will react accordingly.

You’ll notice that your cat will watch the air and move its eyes as if tracking something moving around the room. Then there are dogs who bark at an empty corner of the room. Well, at least to you it looks empty, but really, something is there! If your home is haunted, then you know how your pets react when something manifests. Even rabbits will thump their back feet when an entity is near.

There are good spirits and negative ones. If your home is inhabited by the kind ones, then your dog may still bark at them. Your pet is simply alerting you to the fact that someone strange is in your home. I’ve known people who have witnessed a spirit petting their cats and dogs. These people have seen the fur being matted as the animal is getting stroked. Friendly ghosts love animals and still like to pet them from the other side.

In some cases, you will see your pet looking up at the air, listening to an entity. Their heads will cock to the side, and then they will take off as if doing so on command. I know one lady whose dog did just this and went to get his bone. Then he dropped the bone at the foot of something invisible. The dog wagged his tail and kept looking at the air waiting for another command!

In another case, a cat followed the unseen entity up the stairs. The cat would pause at certain points as if stopping when the ghost stopped. The home owner followed the cat because it was clear the feline was looking up as if listening to someone. When the cat went into the bedroom, the door closed all by itself behind the cat! There were no windows open. The air was not running. This had never happened before. The owner said when she went to open the door, her cat was laying on its back on the bed with its paw batting at the air, like someone had a cat toy and was playing with it. But no one was there, at least no one she could see. These are the fun interactions. It shows you that what you are dealing with is peaceful and pleasant.

However, that is not always the case. There are negative spirits who attack animals, but those situations are rare. I wrote another article about that, and you can scroll down my blog to look at it. Basically, if you have a bad spirit, then your animals will show signs of stress and become sick. These things do happen, and there is no rational explanation for why it occurs. It is frightening and sad, but those types of cases are not nearly as common as good spirit contact. I just wanted you to know that there are all kinds of entities around us. If you come across a negative one, you do have to deal with it, but most often, the spirit hanging out in your home means you no harm.

If you live in a haunted place, it is likely that your pet tipped you off that someone or something was in your home. They will watch spirits and even follow them. Sometimes they even play with the ghosts. When you watch them, you see that they are having fun. On the other hand, if it upsets your pet, then you have a better idea that something is not quite right.

I should note that pets don’t have to have fur to be psychic. I’ve even seen cases where lizards would act strangely when paranormal activity was occurring. Strange but true. The point is that animals do see entities on the other side. They can be your window into the unseen world and give you a glimpse into the unknown. Pay attention when your little animal friend starts interacting with something that you cannot see. There very well may be a spirit close by.

You Are Not Crazy: Aliens Are Visiting Us

By Deborah Kauflin, Ph.D.

Have you had strange dreams filled with weird looking entities? Did you lose time? Were you in a place where you saw a UFO? Have marks appeared on your body overnight, scars that weren’t there when you went to bed? Do you remember waking up somewhere else, such as outside? Have you heard an unexplained clicking sound?

If so, you may have been visited by aliens. Now, not every dream and unexplained scrape on your body comes from extraterrestrials. There is more to it than that. So don’t jump to this conclusion if you wake up with a scratch or have a bad dream.

However there are cases where E.T. visits are occurring. Witnesses aren’t just imagining what is happening to them. There is supporting evidence to go along with their stories. Others in the house have the same experiences. Scars appear on their bodies. They see a UFO land in grassy areas, but nothing will grow in these spots after the UFO leaves. Some have evidence of radiation exposure. Others have implants in their bodies. Still more will suddenly become fluent in another language or understand advanced mathematics.

For many of those who have contact, their experiences are lifelong. In other words, aliens keep track of certain people throughout their lives. For them, it all starts in childhood.

  1. Childhood memory:

When they are little, they have an alien experience which can be very traumatizing. The children don’t necessarily remember everything consciously, though sometimes they do recall seeing otherworldly beings. It can be very scary because some aliens look quite different from us. To a child, meeting up with these creatures would be terrifying. And this can ingrain trauma into the consciousness of such children. They don’t always know why exactly they are so anxious, but they get flashes of memory which remind them. In some cases, as their memories focus, they feel a sense of calm because the entities were gentle and kind to them. As the witnesses remember more, they become less anxious, and the trauma fades.

This doesn’t happen with all contactees. Some children recall absolutely terrifying contact. They remember being probed and prodded with no regard for their feelings. Of course this leads to psychological damage which can manifest in depression, anxiety, and even addiction in later life.

  1. Psychic skills:

Many who have alien contact experience are psychic or become intuitive after an experience. Especially after contact, witnesses have psychic dreams. In the dreams they have more alien visits and astral travel. They have precognitive dreams, and they will get strong feelings (gut feelings) which are proven right time and time again.

  1. Family contact:

It is quite common to find that more than one family member has been in contact with E.T.’s. In fact, once family members talk to each other and find out that their relatives have been through the same thing, it eases their minds a bit. Basically, they realize that they aren’t crazy! And when they dig further, they find that their ancestors often had experiences as well. Sadly, most people tend not to talk about their experiences and suffer in silence, questioning their sanity.

  1. Feeling of not fitting in:

In combination with some of these characteristics, contactees simply know they are not from here. Earth is such a violent, difficult place, and contactees feel somewhat disconnected from other people. In short, they know they don’t fit here. You may feel that way, that no one here understands you, and if so, you should read this article carefully.

When these contactees are under hypnosis or when they examine their experiences more closely, they find that often they feel nothing but love and warmth when with the E.T.’s. They fit there. The aliens are ‘home’ for them. And suddenly everything makes sense.

Just because a being looks scary does not mean that it is bad. I used to teach my detectives just this topic when I did my criminal profiling seminars. Most serial killers don’t look like Frankenstein. Serial predators can be very good looking and professionally successful. Looks don’t matter when it comes to whether an individual is a predator, and the same holds true for aliens. For some people, the initial shock of seeing a frightening looking entity can traumatize them so much that they have trouble getting beyond it. So their view of E.T.’s is negative.

To be clear, bad experiences do occur. While there are loads of wonderful alien contacts, I have to say, not all are like that. For every good contact, I’ve seen a bad one. The truth is that some experience is downright evil. These are the more commonly known violent abductions. There are no gifts for these unfortunate people who go through these attacks.

Unlike the others who feel at home with the aliens, these people instinctively know they don’t belong with the entities who are taking them. These negative E.T.’s do actual harm. They experiment on abductees and don’t bother using any anesthetic while doing so. Witnesses recall these experiences in great, painstaking detail. For them, it is torture, pure and simple.  That is their reality, and just because there are many good alien contact cases doesn’t mean that bad ones don’t exist. We have to be honest about people’s experiences, and some alien witnesses have had horrific abductions.

These are totally different experiences.

Does this point to separate alien species, or are there rogue aliens just like there are rogue humans? It is interesting to note that those who have had positive experiences point to grey, mantid, insect, humanoid, light, feline, and even reptilians as the entities with which they had contact.

On the other hand, people who have violent abductions point to some of those same types of entities. This makes one wonder if aliens are indeed like humans in which some are good and some bad. It is hard to say at this point exactly what is happening. Yet people around the world share these experiences, whether they live in Africa, the Middle East, or small villages in Europe. And their stories are very similar, even those that come from remote areas. E.T.’s are here and are likely visiting people who don’t even realize it. They can come into your dreams or take you from your car. You never know when they might come calling.

If you have had such an experience, please email me. I keep your information confidential, and I respect what you have been through. Email: deborahkauflin @ gmail.com