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Do we really have free will?

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

Free will may be an illusion. Oh, we think we are in charge of everything in our lives. We make choices. Some we regret, and others we love. As we go through life, we make tons of decisions every day. All of us share the belief that we make our own paths. What if that isn’t true? What if you learned that the future is predestined, no matter what you do?

It may seem ridiculous, but please hear me out. Psychics have the ability to see the future. I’ve done it. I know others who have done it. You may have seen the future when you have a flash in your mind or a prophetic dream. Have you ever dreamt of something only to later have it come true? This isn’t unusual. Many people get glimpses of the future. A lot of times it happens when you least expect it. Some people even predict the timing of their own deaths or simply know they will die young. And that is exactly what happens.

I know of psychic circles where people get together and attempt to make predictions about the future. Some of us psychics will do this just when we are hanging out as friends. The results can be amazing. There are cases where the predictions are eerily accurate.

To give a basic example, I did a reading for a friend and told her she was going to win some money within two weeks. I said it was not huge lottery jackpot money, but it would be a few thousand dollars which would help her. What she hadn’t told me was that she was planning a trip to a casino that weekend which was in two days. When she returned, she contacted me because she had won $3000.00. I have psychic friends who have predicted when a body would be found in a homicide case. These predictions came true as well. People have predicted plane crashes and other tragedies. I’ve predicted specific terror attacks and the when/where/who would be involved.

We see these things before they happen, or is it truly BEFORE? If we can see the future, does that mean it is written in stone? When we preview what is to come, are we influencing it? How can we see it if it has not already been written?

You can argue that if we see what is going to happen, then it is predestined. If it is not predetermined, how can we see it? When psychics or anybody sees the future and it unfolds as predicted, it appears as if choices don’t matter. This leads to a lot of questions. How in control are we in our lives? If life is predetermined, who predetermines it? Do we have a simple illusion of free will?

If time occurs all at once, does that mean time is folded on itself (past, present, future) and maybe a psychic can see different times which occur simultaneously? Still in order to view another time, it has to have happened. You would have nothing to examine otherwise. You cannot see what isn’t there.

Are we viewing the future in another dimension where it has already occurred? Again, to read it, it has to be written. One could say it was only a potential future that psychics see, but when that future happens, it is no longer a potential. It took place. So when you psychically view it, you have viewed something already written. You can argue that it was only a potential future which was brought about by personal choices. Yet, in order to see it, you have to have something to see. You saw something that was already there. Somehow, it was already there to view. This topic can spin you around in circles.

Dr. Barry Taff did a lot of research on this and said we may not like the answers once we discover what is really happening. When we unravel all these mysteries of the paranormal, we may not be fond of the truth. We may be less in control than we think. In fact, we may have no control at all. It could all be an illusion of free will.

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How to be psychic with animals

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

If you are reading this, then chances are that you love animals. The creatures who surround us as pets and in nature are sentient beings. They think, and they feel. You will see them show compassion to their offspring or siblings. And your pets absolutely adore you. They feel love.

You may notice that your pets sense when something is wrong with you. Whether it is a physical ailment or emotional trauma, they will be by your side with concern. They know something is wrong. They are connected to you.

Did you know that you can psychically talk to animals? You do not need words with your furry friends. You can simply use your mind to speak to them. One does not even need to be in the same room with them. You can be across town and reach them with your thoughts. Animals have heightened senses, so they are always scanning the environment.

If you want to talk with your animals using psychic ability, use these steps.

To begin, you must become calm. Find a place where you will not be bothered.  Then, you need to relax. The best way to do that is to get comfortable and close your eyes. Then you clear your mind. Take slow deep breaths one by one until you calm yourself. It may take you longer than you think to do this since our world is so hectic. You will know when you reach a perfect state because you will feel wonderful and relaxed. Once that is done, proceed to step two.

Second, use your mind to picture what you want to communicate to your animal. Imagine the scene that you want. Do you want your dog to stop doing something? Do you want your cat to listen? You want his attention before you can tell him what to do. Begin by calling his name in your head while picturing yourself with the animal. This could take a while for your animal to learn what you are doing. If you are in the same room with your pet, you can slowly open your eyes to see if you have his attention. Once you have your pet’s attention, go to step three.

Third, concentrate on a happy scenario with your animal. In the image, stroke your animal and tell him how much you love him. Keep this movie scenario in your head while focusing on you with your pet. Repeat this image over and over as you retain the connection with your animal’s mind. During this time, you need to keep calm. The more relaxed you are, the more you will be able to connect with your animal.

Fourth, in your mind, think of what you want your pet to do. Use your mind to create an image of what you want. Imagine it like you would in a daydream. Focus on your animal and talk directly to it in your thoughts. Replay the image repeatedly. Again, you must keep the connection to your pet as you do this. Keep focusing on putting the image in your animal’s head.

If you find yourself getting frustrated, repeat steps one through three and set the stage again. Don’t give up. These things take time.

Eventually you will be amazed by the results. It will take a while, but with practice you can do this. I have quieted wild birds and other animals doing this technique. It works. Animals will listen to you if you give them the chance. They WANT to talk to us. Too often people get frustrated because they want instant results. Psychic work takes practice, and if you are willing to put in the time, you will see progress. This will also help you with your psychic ability overall. You will find it is easier to use your psychic skills the more you do this. Whether you want to practice mind over matter, remote viewing, or predicting the future, use these steps and apply them to what you are are looking to do. Remember that you are psychic and can do this.

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Are you mysteriously drawn to someone?

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

Have you ever met someone and felt like you already knew that person? Is there an individual who intrigues you, though there is no apparent reason for it? Does someone just stick in your mind? It is like there is some kind of magic pulling you to this person. You probably don’t even understand why.

This is very common. You are not the only person who has gone through this. What you might not know is that there is a paranormal element to this. Everyone is psychic to some extent. Some people are better at it than others due to natural innate ability. But every person reading this has psychic skills. You may not even be aware of it. Trust me. You do.

How is this relevant to being drawn to someone for some strange reason?

We are all interconnected through consciousness, so you can pick up when someone has a similar vibration to you. You may be drawn to someone because your consciousness is somehow already interacting with that person on another level. Our psychic minds are always scanning our environment for data and giving us feedback. If you are mysteriously drawn to someone, you may psychically be interacting already. You may be picking up on that person’s energy field.

The person may be a teacher for you. Maybe there is a lesson you need to learn, and this person can teach you this lesson. Our souls are always searching for growth, so we seek out what helps us move forward. Think of the times you met someone and knew this person would be instrumental in your life. You just knew. Then as time goes by, you find out you were right.

Sometimes you need healing, and a particular person is good for your soul. You sense this and are drawn to the person. Your soul is in need and searching for ways to heal. So, we can seek out those with the ability to mend us. You may recognize something about that person that you admire or have in yourself. The vibration is similar.

There is a possibility you knew each other in a past life. You could be old friends from another time. Then when you see your old pal in this life, your spirit recognizes it immediately. There is an instant comfort and compatibility. This happens quite a bit as we make our way through life.

You could be astral traveling at night while asleep and interacting with the consciousness of another person. If you are seeking something, and most people are, then you do this naturally as you sleep. Your psychic self actually goes somewhere else as you get some shut eye. Sometimes your dreams are more than dreams. Sometimes they are real. Your spirit explores while you sleep. These are not dreams but travels. They seem different from normal dreams and very vivid. You will remember them. When you astral travel in your sleep, you are searching for what you need.

When you use your psychic ability, you are connecting with something that is outside of yourself. Consciousness is limitless yet connected. You can do more with your mind than you know. There are many paranormal reasons that you are strangely drawn to a person. When you find yourself feeling pulled to someone for no reason, your mind is telling you that you are searching for something missing in your life. You want and need to grow. When you psychically connect with another who has a similar vibration to you, it helps restore you. It can even be healing. Your mind craves connection and learning. Behind the scenes, your psychic self is venturing out to help you get what you need. As you get older, you mind does this even more. The more you learn, the more you want to know. You will always be seeking out those with like vibration, teachers, old friends, and healers. So don’t worry if you find yourself in this position. Your psychic self is just doing what it naturally does: reaching out for connections.

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Psychics under attack

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

I know a lot of psychics. I’m friends with many of them, and others I know through my research. Something that has bothered me for a while is the pattern I have seen over the past several years. A lot of psychics have suffered endless tragedies. There are unusual ordeals that are repeated in the psychics’ lives. It just won’t stop. When one problem dies down, another rears its ugly head. And these are serious problems, life changing damages.

While this may not have impacted all psychics, there are enough who have suffered to be concerned. To put it bluntly, it is almost as if something is strategically targeting psychics and keeping them buried under trauma after trauma.

We are talking about things like:

  1. Having two children die unexpectedly within 2 years with no related cause.
  2. Having a spouse and even adult children suddenly become abusive.
  3. Being diagnosed with an unusual disease; then getting ANOTHER unusual disease. And then getting another.
  4. Out of this world trouble with a house/home
  5. Having accident after accident which is not their fault.

I know bad things happen all the time in life, but extraordinarily unusual traumas don’t continually happen to the same person over and over and over and over and over and over. We are not just talking about one thing happening. We are not talking about two things happening. We are talking about nonstop unusual tragedies striking month after month, year after year. It is beyond strange and frankly alarming.

For psychics, the ability to read for people is often the source of their livelihood. Rock their emotional boat too much, and they cannot do their work. They can’t support their families. Plus, they cannot heal others, which many of them do. They cannot provide grief relief for others. This has a negative cascading effect. In short, with psychics taken out of the equation, evil can run rampant. You can define evil in many ways: spiritual, human, and others.

I think we all know that the world has been off for the last several years. Frankly it was off before covid, and many people were spiraling down even before that. We have trouble here, and the pandemic stunted everyone’s ability to grow and thrive. Yet time has marched on. Many have lost loved ones before their time, and it has driven them down into the pits of despair. Make no mistake; evil has had a hand in all of this.

I’m afraid a lot of psychics have paid a price for having their abilities. Even paranormal investigators have suffered these types of traumas in the last few years. Every time they try to get back up, they are smacked down, and they are smacked down hard.

A lot of psychics are struggling now. You may be struggling as well. Remember we are all psychic, so this ordeal has impacted you too. It seems as if evil has wound everyone up and is spinning them around so they can’t get their footing. It is hard to do good in this world if you are continually smashed into the ground.

I’d like to hear from you if you are in this field and have seen this. I’m as curious as all of you are as to what is really going on.

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Belief can make you more psychic

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

Belief dictates the power of your mind. I am going to repeat that. Belief dictates the power of the mind

Our minds are massively powerful, more so than you may ever realize. Your ability to believe you can do something will determine whether you can do it. Research has shown that people who believe they are psychic do better with their psychic abilities. What so many people do not understand is that we are all psychic. Some have more natural ability than others, but everyone reading this has psychic skills. You just may not know it.

This is so very important because if you understand this, you will be able to do much more with your life. Too many people are dismissive of anything outside of our five senses. This hinders any natural psychic ability you may have. Belief will make it easier to connect with things which are unseen. When you believe, you won’t have a mental block in place to prevent you from sensing what is right around you. Why? You will be more psychic when you remove doubt.

Once you get rid of your mental block, you will have more contact with ghosts and ET’s. I know many people who were downright skeptics who began going on ghost hunts. After a while, they experienced all kinds of supernatural things. The more they opened up, they more they experienced. What you will notice is that your abilities will skyrocket when you take away the false notion that you can’t do something. If you think you can’t, then you can’t. You have to force yourself to think differently.

One could call it mind over matter, which it is. Whatever you want to name it, once you believe you can do something, then you will make progress. Belief unlocks the power of your thoughts. Thoughts are alive.  They impact us in every way. We can think ourselves sick, and we can think ourselves well. I’ll give you an example. Say someone is dying but wants to live long enough for a certain event. Despite all dire predictions of doctors, the person is able to live just long enough to see the event. The mind does that. Our will power does that.

The more everyone realizes that belief can impact all parts of their lives, the more powerful they become. Psychic abilities allow you to visit other places and connect with other entities. Increased psychic ability helps protect you and guide you to the right path. If you feel like you are stuck in life, you must first believe you can do something different before you can.

You need to change the way you think and focus on knowing you CAN pick up psychic information. You can talk with those who have passed all by yourself. First, you must believe that there are things out there that we cannot see. Understand that your loved ones who have crossed over are still alive in spirit. Believe that your mind is more powerful than you think.

If you transform your thoughts, your life will change. Take steps to open your mind. Mediate. Read about aliens, ghosts, and other phenomena. Get involved in paranormal groups. Let yourself believe.

When you realize that your abilities can be endless, you will come into your own power. You will grow as a person and find more contentment in your life. Mind over matter actually matters. Belief dictates the power of the mind.

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Psychic mediums get rare non-fatal illnesses

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Copyright Deborah S. Kauflin, Ph.D.

If you a psychic medium, then the likelihood is that you have struggled with several health issues. Additionally, I’ve found that mediums will often have rare non-fatal illnesses which make their lives difficult. It is not uncommon for mediums to struggle with sickness most of their lives. They are survivors, but they can stumble with the heaviness of the load they have been given.

Whether it began in childhood or developed later, mediums suffer a variety of ailments. The most common illness is an autoimmune disease. The symptoms flare under stress and sometimes after doing readings, particularly if the person being read has an illness. The autoimmune disorders are painful and draining.

Other common illnesses mediums struggle with are migraines and headaches. This is very common and something the general public does not know. It seems to be a price a lot of mediums pay in order to connect with spirit. Some mediums report having head pain every day. Imagine a life where your head hurts all the time. Not fun.

I found it interesting that several mediums had gone through rare illnesses. Though they could have died from their sicknesses, they did not. The illnesses come out of the blue and do have devastating effects. The mediums can get so upset with this that their abilities temporarily go offline. They may even wonder if they have lost their ability to communicate with the other side. However, the confusion is temporary. If anything, the illness makes the ability stronger.

Mediums may wonder why they are hit with these illnesses, often repeatedly. I think part of it is that reading others takes more out of you than you think. You can absorb the problems of others, and your body may take on the characteristics of other people’s diseases. Or you may simply be so run down (more than you realize) and a weak point in your body gets out of whack.

Another factor people don’t consider is that mediums will be bothered by entities when they try to sleep. If they cannot sleep, they cannot restore themselves. Sleep is essential. Sometimes mediums can tune out entities and get to sleep. However, spirits can enter their dreams and still drain their energy while they sleep. This is no good and must be stopped.

You have to restore balance. If you are a medium and can relate to this, then you have to become even within yourself. You must weigh work and stress versus happiness and fun. If you are out of balance, you won’t do well.

For the mediums reading this: take care of yourself. If you are not in balance, you cannot help others. Are you happy? Do you smile more than frown? If not, you have to change something in your life. You can only be tilted to sadness so long before something bad comes your way.

Give yourself permission to take a vacation from readings if your work is weighing too much on you. It will make you a better medium when you are in balance and rested.

The illnesses seem to play some kind of role in medium abilities. It is so common that you cannot ignore the link. And mediums who do not keep themselves in balance will pay a price. People do not realize how much energy it takes to do readings. It can wear you out quickly, especially if you are suffering from a disease.

In the end, mediums lives are not easy. They struggle just like everyone else. Sometimes there are so many demands on them that they stumble and end up with their lives in a mess. If you find yourself in this position, know you must prioritize your health and get yourself back in balance. You will do better and be better for others.

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How to talk to spirits

Deborah Kauflin, Ph.D.

We are all psychic. Whether you realize it or not, you have psychic abilities. Some call it intuition. Others call it a gut instinct. Whatever you personally want to call it, you do have this ability.

We all have spirits around us. Our loved ones who have crossed over come to visit us. Some of you out there have ghosts in your homes. And though it can seem scary, you do have the ability to talk to spirits.

It takes a lot of practice, especially if you are not used to it. But you can do it. Find a nice and quiet place where you won’t be disturbed. Make yourself comfortable and take three or four deep breaths. You have to be in a safe place where nothing will bother you. If you can’t focus, you won’t be able to connect.

First you must ground yourself. You need to relax and clear your mind of all the stress and clutter in your life. Second, focus on the spirit you want to talk to. Make it clear in your mind that you ONLY want to talk to certain spirits. If you are a person of faith, ask to be protected as you contact the other side. That way no stray ghosts or other entities can come bother you.

As you concentrate on a specific spirit, try to picture that spirit. If it is your mother who has crossed over, remember how she used to look. Maybe you are trying to talk to your dog that died last year. Picture your furry friend in your mind. Perhaps you lost a child, and of course, you will never forget how your son or daughter looked. Whether it is a person or a pet, you can contact either one. Try to hold a picture in your mind as you relax and focus on that spirit.

Keep these images in you thoughts, relax, and ask to speak to your spirit. Don’t get upset if you don’t get results right away. It may take you a while to figure out how spirits are communicating with you. If your grief is too much, it may block your ability to communicate. So don’t give up. It may take a long time to get through.

Sometimes when you ask your spirit a question, an answer will pop in your mind. Yes, this answer is coming from your loved one. You can ask several questions, but what you will find is that you get tired quickly when focusing on getting an answer. That is because spirit is using your energy to talk to you. So be careful not to do too much at once. Naturally you can do this every day if you wish. The more you do it, the better you become. But don’t panic if you find yourself getting really tired while doing this.

While some people can get answers using this method, other times, nothing SEEMS to come through. In that case, your spirit may talk to you in another way. You may begin to see signs. If you mom loved blue jays, all of a sudden you will see blue jays. If your pet used to run down the stairs, you may hear that sound all over again. You could hear your child’s laughter. Children who have crossed over make a special effort to come to their parents when their parents are really suffering.

If you pay really close attention, you will start to see signs, things that meant something to your loved one. If you are not careful, you can easily miss these signs. You must watch for them. But I promise you, if you ask your spirit for these signs, your loved one will give them to you. They love you and want to make you happy.

There are other ways to communicate with spirits. There are spirit boxes and other mechanical methods. Some use spirit knocks (asking the spirit to knock once for yes and twice for no). And clever researchers are always coming up with new ways to get through to the other side. But the truth is that you don’t really need a device to talk to spirits, especially your loved ones. They will come to you in dreams and do their best to answer you in your mind or send you signs.

This doesn’t mean that ghost detectors don’t have their place in contacting spirits. It just means that for me, I prefer using psychic ability. And for my dear readers, I recommend using your own thoughts to contact spirit because it doesn’t cost you anything!!!

Keep the faith and keep trying. You will get through if you really seek to find a spirit. If your heart is sincere, they will come to you.

Are Psychics Really Talking to Aliens?

by Deborah Kauflin, Ph.D.

The paranormal field has gone from obscurity to main stream. This is a wonderful thing because the topic is fascinating. Who wouldn’t want to know if we go on in another form after we die? Wouldn’t it be jaw dropping to have proof that aliens are among us?

For twenty years I worked as a criminal profiler for police. I worked so many serial murder cases for law enforcement, and I am famous for my accurate profiles. What I didn’t tell people is that I am a psychic medium. In more recent years, people like me have come forward, to tell the truth. And the truth is that there is something very real about the paranormal field.

There is a lot of eyewitness testimony regarding ghosts, spirits, and aliens. And even though skeptics pooh-pooh it, eyewitness testimony is admitted in courts of law. How do you brush off reports which date back thousands of years? How can you realistically ignore well documented cases involving paranormal activity? Though surely some people are fakes, not everyone is a liar. Many professional and rational people have had paranormal experiences. They want answers not scorn. The longer the paranormal is looked at with disdain, the longer it will take to unlock the mysteries that wait for us.

Though I know that when you hear about ghosts or aliens that you may automatically scoff, you should take a step back and truly examine paranormal happenings around the world. Every culture has reported them. Children who have had no education claim to have seen aliens and ghosts. Some children have knowledge from past lives, knowledge that they had no possible way of faking. These things do exist.

When I was talking with some other psychics recently, we spoke about the possibility that some mediumship contacts are actually made with aliens. To some this may seem farfetched. However, when you look at all the evidence for alien contact, it is not farfetched at all. Reports suggest aliens use telepathy to communicate. If that is true, then it would only make sense that any alien entity who wanted to communicate would try to speak to mediums. After all, if mediums have greater telepathic ability than the general population, it would follow that alien entities would attempt contact with them.

It was interesting because though every psychic that I spoke with agreed that it certainly was possible, none wanted to come forward to admit it! A lot of people are comfortable with the idea that spirits are around us, but they fear alien contact.

Physicists propose that there are multi-universes and dimensions. It is simply beyond belief to suggest that we as humans are the only ‘intelligent’ life forms. In fact, that concept is laughable. Really, one can make a good argument that humans aren’t all that intelligent. Just take a look around at the backwards and barbaric things that happen every day, and the idea of intelligence flies out the window.

So you have to ask the question: could psychics be talking with aliens when they do readings? When psychics get information, could some of it come from alien beings? I believe that this does happen. There are too many cases from credible sources to dismiss. I do believe that with time we will solve the puzzle of the paranormal. People need to come forward with their experiences. And if you are someone who is interested in this topic, then don’t be embarrassed! It is worth studying and has potential to have a huge impact on this world.

If you have come into contact with something like this, let me know. I’d love to hear from you!

Gays in the Afterlife (you’re NOT going to Hell)

by Deborah Kauflin, Ph.D.

You are not going to Hell. You are not bad, and you are very spiritual. Nothing could destroy your soul, especially loving someone! There is nothing wrong with you. These are the messages from the Other Side. Listen to these words and take them to heart.

For so many years, Gays have been demonized in religious circles. And for this reason, many in the LGBT community have turned away from religion. They have felt the hatred from misguided people, and it has scarred them. Too many have been terrified of what awaits them in the Afterlife.

How many have turned away from their spiritual side or worried about where they are going when they die? How many are raised in religious homes and feel like they will burn in Hell because of their sexual orientation? How many have BEEN TOLD they will never get to Heaven because they are Gay?

For those of you out there who have been told such nonsense, I have some information for you. I am a psychic medium and a retired criminal profiler. I am a very well known criminal profiler and have worked on so many serial murder cases for police. I have been psychic all my life, and I take my work very seriously.

I can tell you that there is nothing wrong with you. An all loving entity (or Creator) would never cast you into a fire filled pit simply because you love someone of the same sex. So much research has proven that Gays are born that way. And if God made you this way, then how could you ever be anything but beautiful?

I regularly meditate and have asked my spirit guides about Gays on the Other Side. I ALWAYS get the same answer. Gays go to the light just like anyone filled with love. They enjoy happiness and are surrounded by the joy that many never got here. In fact, many Gays go on to become spirit guides because of the hardships they went through in this life. So they make great teachers with their compassion. I’ve been told that Gays come into this life as teachers. That is, they are here to further human rights, teach acceptance, and help this world progress.

Don’t ever worry that you will go someplace dark when you die. Know that you will be going to a wonderful loving place once you cross over. So enjoy this life. That is what you are meant to do! Embrace your spirituality and always follow your heart. Don’t be anything but yourself, and this goes for heterosexuals too. Be who you are and find your happiness.

How to Talk to Spirits

by Deborah Kauflin, Ph.D.

We are all psychic. Whether you realize it or not, you have psychic abilities. Some call it intuition. Others call it a gut instinct. Whatever you personally want to call it, you do have this ability.

We all have spirits around us. Our loved ones who have crossed over come to visit us. Some of you out there have ghosts in your homes. And though it can seem scary, you do have the ability to talk to spirits.

It takes a lot of practice, especially if you are not used to it. But you can do it. Find a nice and quiet place where you won’t be disturbed. Make yourself comfortable and take three or four deep breaths. You have to be in a safe place where nothing will bother you. If you can’t focus, you won’t be able to connect.

First you must ground yourself. You need to relax and clear your mind of all the stress and clutter in your life. Second, focus on the spirit you want to talk to. Make it clear in your mind that you ONLY want to talk to certain spirits. If you are a person of faith, ask to be protected as you contact the other side. That way no stray ghosts or other entities can come bother you.

As you concentrate on a specific spirit, try to picture that spirit. If it is your mother who has crossed over, remember how she used to look. Maybe you are trying to talk to your dog that died last year. Picture your furry friend in your mind. Perhaps you lost a child, and of course, you will never forget how your son or daughter looked. Whether it is a person or a pet, you can contact either one. Try to hold a picture in your mind as you relax and focus on that spirit.

Keep these images in you thoughts, relax, and ask to speak to your spirit. Don’t get upset if you don’t get results right away. It may take you a while to figure out how spirits are communicating with you. If your grief is too much, it may block your ability to communicate. So don’t give up. It may take a long time to get through.

Sometimes when you ask your spirit a question, an answer will pop in your mind. Yes, this answer is coming from your loved one. You can ask several questions, but what you will find is that you get tired quickly when focusing on getting an answer. That is because spirit is using your energy to talk to you. So be careful not to do too much at once. Naturally you can do this every day if you wish. The more you do it, the better you become. But don’t panic if you find yourself getting really tired while doing this.

**As a warning I should tell you that if you think spirits are commanding you to hurt yourself or others, this is not spirit contact. This is mental illness or a medical problem, and you should seek professional help for this right away.

However if your contact is more pleasant, then you know that you have something real. Your loved ones would never hurt you or do things to scare you!

While some people can get answers using this method, other times, nothing SEEMS to come through. In that case, your spirit may talk to you in another way. You may begin to see signs. If you mom loved blue jays, all of a sudden you will see blue jays. If your pet used to run down the stairs, you may hear that sound all over again. You could hear your child’s laughter. Children who have crossed over make a special effort to come to their parents when their parents are really suffering.

If you pay really close attention, you will start to see signs, things that meant something to your loved one. If you are not careful, you can easily miss these signs. You must watch for them. But I promise you, if you ask your spirit for these signs, your loved one will give them to you. They love you and want to make you happy.

There are other ways to communicate with spirits. There are spirit boxes and other mechanical methods. Some use spirit knocks (asking the spirit to knock once for yes and twice for no). And clever researchers are always coming up with new ways to get through to the other side. But the truth is that you don’t really need a device to talk to spirits, especially your loved ones. They will come to you in dreams and do their best to answer you in your mind or send you signs.

This doesn’t mean that ghost detectors don’t have their place in contacting spirits. It just means that for me, I prefer using psychic ability. And for my dear readers, I recommend using your own thoughts to contact spirit because it doesn’t cost you anything!!!

Keep the faith and keep trying. You will get through if you really seek to find a spirit. If your heart is sincere, they will come to you.

Have a wonderful spirit day!